How many times do you find yourself disappointed in the partner you choose? Do you feel used, insignificant, or confused in what it is you want from this person? Do you want a partnership that's abundant, loving, and fulfilling? There were plenty of moments in my life, when I asked myself these questions and my answers were different throughout different stages of my life. However, when I got tired of being tired I had to sit down and do a self-evaluation. I realized that I always asked God for a relationship which is mistake number one.

Relationships can be built with anyone at any time.A relationship is being in the company of someone you can relate to in certain areas of your life. We all have experienced different situations that others can relate to and understand the emotions felt behind them at that time. This is how we develop an emotional connection and with further conversation it will eventually turn into a mental connection. Now that you’re communicating with each other, you discover you have some things in common, and decide now to take things further.

Now sex steps into the picture, you become physical, and feelings get involved based on familiar emotions which is mistake number two. You are in a relationship pulled together by the same energy which is a beautiful thing, but it depends on what frequency you both are on. For example, if you relate to someone on a high vibration, they will lift your energy and motivate you. However, if you connect with someone on a lower frequency, your energy will feel drained and down. This is why most women end up feeling disappointed and used. You can build a relationship with anybody, but what you’re truly looking for is a partner.

Your vagina holds value and when you're giving someone your prize possession, you expect something back in return. You expect loyalty, companionship, and growth. This is a business plan and investment. Your partner vibes off your energy. You work together as one. A partner will give you what you give them because it's all about balance. You're coming up with ideas together to secure the bag, ideas to increase your finances. You're putting in the same amount of effort, dedication, and time to secure and stabilize this union. A partner wants to evolve and grow and will inspire you to do the same. Things never stay the same because the mission is to expand.

Author's Bio: 

I am a spiritual intercessor, writer,and alchemist who communicates with spirit guides to help assist you in your spiritual journey. I provide messages sent to me by the ancestors and angels who watch over you in your everyday life. They have a divine message for you and I am here to make sure you receive that message and live your best life through Spirit.