I was the youngest of five children who grew up on a farm in rural Nebraska, ten miles from the closest town of about 3,000 people. My mother worked full time at the local hospital from the time I was three years old, and my father worked the field from dawn until dusk. When I was fifteen years old I was diagnosed with scoliosis, which began a three year journey of wearing a full body cast in an attempt to correct my curvature. Assessments revealed that the casts were unsuccessful, which meant I needed back surgery. After a bone graft from my hip and a thirteen inch spinal fusion, I spent one year lying flat on my back in a hospital bed, 200 miles away from home in a ward of the state’s Crippled Children’s Hospital. I saw my father once and my mother three times that entire year. Believing I was a burden, I know what it’s like to feel alone and unlovable….. to believe the story that, “I’m on my own. I feel abandoned, so I must not be important.”
I knew in my heart that there were gifts waiting to be discovered in my emotional landscape. I was determined to discover them, so I could assist others in their exploration. It has now been more than 25 years since I decided to embody my message, engage in work that feeds my soul, and offer it to the world. Crossing the bridge from my wounds, and understanding the transition of stepping into new ways of being, I knew I was called to extend a hand to those behind, still waiting. Our wounds do not need to dictate who we are! My mission became providing clinically and Biblically sound mental health services and integrated coaching processes to individuals, couples, and families - from a framework of Christian love, understanding, and compassion.
Another path of my journey has been grieving the loss of my marriage of 33 years. I understand the opportunities for growth in being married as well as in the painful aftermath of divorce. As a result, I am passionate in my work of helping couples identify negative relational patterns, and replacing them with loving behaviors that foster meaningful love, intimacy, and fulfillment. I feel great joy seeing relationships transformed in front of me, from being a cause of pain to a source of hope and blessing!
I initially earned my Bachelor's degree from the University of Nebraska, College of Dentistry. Later, I went on to earn my Master's degree in Counseling from Arizona State University, and certification as a Life Coach at the Life Purpose Institute in La Jolla, CA. I am a Professional Counselor, licensed by the State of Arizona. I am also a National Certified Counselor (NCC), and a Certified Life Coach.
I know what it is like to want to hide. Growing up in my family, the message I heard was, “ Children are to be seen and not heard. ” The impact it had on me was that I thought what I had to say was not important. The gift that came from this emotional wound was my determination to not only find my voice, but to help others find theirs! I believe that deeper self-expression is one of the benefits derived from Christian counseling that teaches you how to love yourself and others with God’s love.
If you are tired of feeling disempowered, resentful, worn out, and defeated in your business or relationships, I can help. I will come alongside as you ‘ find your voice’ and learn how to use it to speak your truth lovingly and powerfully. And with courage and God’s grace, you will be changed in the process. No longer depleted, you will find the energy you need to discover the blueprint that will achieve God’s destiny for you and your relationships. Together, we will develop strategies and solutions that move you through obstacles towards meaningful goals that reflect your God-given strengths and values.
You may be in the corporate world feeling victimized; saying “ Yes” when you want to say “ No” to things that do not align with your values. You may have relationships in which you suffer from what I’ll refer to as the ‘locked throat’syndrome. Whatever your situation, if you are ready to step into your heart… to identify your heart’s desires… to take authentic action to create a life aligned with God’s intention… then wait no longer. Pick up the phone and contact me today at 602.402.5034!
I have over 20 years of professional experience from Christian counseling. As a Licensed Christian Counselor , I can help you find meaning and relevance in a safe, Christ-centered environment. Also, as a Certified Life Coach , I am keenly focused on helping you move forward with newfound spark and confidence. I am ready to serve you from my office located near Desert Ridge, North of Tatum and the 101, Phoenix AZ. Your call is the first step on a journey toward inspired greatness!
I believe that people are God's creation. Consequently, they are best helped by using Biblical principles as the foundation for emotional healing and true life balance.
I think most of us at times can relate to Job 29:3 - 'By His light I walked through darkness.' No matter how dark your world seems today, it's still not too late to finally navigate obstacles proactively in order to experience newfound peace, and a brighter future!
Are you at peace with yourself, God, and others?If not, you may find yourself struggling with painful feelings and unhealthy behavior patterns. Whether you have a severed relationship with yourself or other people you care about, I can help you find wholeness in a safe, compassionate, and Christ-centered environment.
I have been trained in one of the most widely researched therapeutic modalities available called EMDR and have been using it effectively since specialized training in 1999. EMDR is used to treat troubling symptoms such as anxiety, depression, guilt, anger, work-related stressors, and the effects of PTSD. If you or someone close to you struggle with a problem that seems insurmountable, seek the assistance of qualified help today. By picking up the phone and calling me at 602.402.5034, you take the first critical step on your journey toward emotional renewal. It is an act of humility. But remember:It is as much an act of true courage, proving to yourself that you genuinely desire lasting change in your life!
Whether you or someone you love need counseling or life coaching, or you want to inquire about my participation as a speaker, coach or counselor in conjunction with your special event, I welcome your feedback anytime.
EMAIL AND PHONE CONTACT
• Email Inquiries: dtyrrell@cox.net
• Phone Inquiries & Scheduling of appointments: 602-402-5034
Please feel free to visit my website at www.DeborahTyrrell.org