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“There is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.” William James
I’ve always been told that the key to keeping your spirits up and getting the most out of life come from having a positive attitude, an optimistic ... Views:2004
Book excerpts
ACCEPTANCE
Be Thankful
Be thankful that you don’t already have everything you desire.
If you did, what would there be to look forward to?
Be thankful when you don’t know something.
For it gives you the opportunity to learn.
Be thankful for the difficult times.
During ... Views:3056
Since working with individuals over the years to heal from infidelity and marriages with multiple wives, I have learnt what successful re-builders do compared to those unsuccessful in repairing their relationships after affairs.
Whilst there is no denying that affairs can destroy love, ... Views:1230
During periods of darkness, it is the stars that come out to shine. The recession offers a challenge to our resilient nature. Whether the economic downturn has the power to negatively impact your relationship or not has much to do with a couple's ability to generate creative solutions in times ... Views:1774
When you find out that your spouse was unfaithful to you, the feeling of betrayal can be almost unbearable. Just in a single moment your whole life that you believed in is taken away from you and you are starting to think about recovering from an emotional affair because despite the fact your ... Views:2866
Relationships used to work because one partner relied on the other for financial and physical support, while the other provided emotional and custodial support. Times have changed significantly! For all relationships, both partners need to cultivate a balance of both masculine and feminine ... Views:1487
When it comes to building a healthy marriage/relationship, one of the best resources is to hear from couples who have been together for many years and, most importantly, would do it all over again with the same person.
In the marriage/relationship enrichment workshops I run, there are often ... Views:2280
CHANGE YOUR WAYS TO CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
If there were any lyrics that best describes today’s message it would be from Michael Jackson’s 1987 hit song ‘Man in the Mirror’ “I’m starting with the man in the mirror. I’m asking him to change his ways and no message could have been any clearer ... Views:1227
Arabic wedding traditions are far more different than typical European or American style weddings. In Arab weddings, many things are adhered to which have been suggested by the primary religion of Arabs. I have explained some of the main wedding traditions of Saudi Arabia that are followed by ... Views:644
Few engaged couples realize it but, your wedding invitations are the first view your guests will have of your wedding. Taking the time to choose invitations that are as unique, as you are and your wedding will be, can set the tone for your wedding well in advance of the first guest’s arrival. ... Views:759
Nobody Else Is willing to Impart to You When you received the Birds and the Bees conversation from Mom and Dad, it most likely centered on two objectives: how you can get around unintentionally creating a child and the way to steer clear of becoming infected with a disease that has no ... Views:2182
So, your partner is complaining that you're not making the relationship a priority.
We all want to be closer to our loved one, but beware when your partner asks you to spend MORE time with them. It's true, some couples would really benefit by finding a way to make their relationship more of a ... Views:1439
Problem snoring is one of the most common medical symptoms in the world. It's estimated that nearly half of the male population and nearly a third of the world's female population snore at night. Given the prevalence of nightly snoring it's no surprise that snoring can become a source of stress ... Views:1299
When you first learn about an affair, you feel like a hurricane just passed through your heart. Surviving an affair usually means dealing with awful emotions like grief, anger, frustration and losing most of your self esteem.
What you need when you first discover about an affair (right after ... Views:1100
Whether you stumbled upon the fact that your spouse was cheating by accident, someone you trust alerted you to your partner's indiscretion or your husband or wife confessed to the affair out of guilt, shame or fear, it's possible to survive the affair and the rough waters ahead. Here are the ... Views:681
Communication is more of an art, rather than exact science. A person who reads and studies about how to communicate may still struggle to communicate effectively in many situations. No book can teach you how to respond to your spouse in every given situation. Instead, the art of communication ... Views:972
You want to save your marriage. You have been searching for tips, articles, books, counseling and talked to friends, family members and perhaps a clergy member to get help for your marriage. You've been to psychics and faith healers and possibly even a marriage counselor or two, but nothing ... Views:513
Gold rings have been loved by consumers for a long time. Many people buy gold rings mainly for two reasons. The first one is the investment and the other is because of the good meaning of gold rings. So many consumers are very like the gold ring. Then let's take a look at the meaning of the gold ... Views:4387
Did you ever wonder how happy marriages are created? Some people just seem to be in sync with another and really in love.
Abigail and Eric are a couple who are obviously happy with each other. Still, at times, in order not to hurt each other feelings, they backed away and didn’t share hurt ... Views:2274
I’ve counseled and been the pastor of marriages for years. In all that time, I have come to realize what makes a successful marriage. Any marriage, and I mean any marriage, that follows these ten principles will be successful. Yes, these are Christian principles.
Here are the Ten Principles ... Views:11692
Even the best bridezilla will require an emergency kit at some point during her wedding day. Indeed, the whole wedding extravaganza is not yet finished until the bride says goodbye to her guests to leave for her and her hubby's honeymoon. So, always being prepared like a good Girl Scout is the ... Views:1294
THERE IS A SPIRITUAL LESSON BEHIND MARITAL STRESS DURING THE HOLIDAY’S
-Every marriage must first be grounded, steeped and honored within a sacred timeless intimate spiritual union and understanding of each soul’s purpose before the two can try to do or be anything else for anyone else ... Views:1149
Married couples can separate because of various reasons - each of them simple and yet at the same time very complicated.
Whether your marital troubles were caused by long-term business travels, military service, or other relationship problems, the result is usually the same: separation. ... Views:6609
INTRODUCTION
Communication skills are not necessarily intrinsic to our nature. It is true that some people possess a talent for communication, but everyone can learn to communicate effectively with our without a natural talent to do so. It merely takes knowledge and practice.
All of the ... Views:2021
There is no doubt that your wedding dress will be one of the most expensive items in your wedding. In fact, you can save a fortune if you are going to rent the wedding gown. Renting a gown is also considered environmental friendly. However, renting a wedding gown is not the same as buying a new ... Views:1723
There is no doubt that your wedding dress will be one of the most expensive items in your wedding. In fact, you can save a fortune if you are going to rent the wedding gown. Renting a gown is also considered environmental friendly. However, renting a wedding gown is not the same as buying a new ... Views:1723
A tropical nation in the Indian Ocean "Maldives" is composed of 26 ring-shaped atolls known for its beaches, blue lagoons and large reefs, this place is ideal for a couple looking for a best romantic destinations for honeymoon.
1- Ideal Beaches
Just grab the hand of your loved one and ... Views:484
When you're searching unique ideas for your wedding? The first step that you can do is write a variety of what you and your partner things to do, such as entertainment, design, color, favorites artists, interests, etc.. This list makes it easier to decide what the perfect theme for you and your ... Views:1038
WE INHERIT A RELATIONSHIP "GPS"
An Excerpt from Ross Rosenberg’s book: The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love People Who Hurt Us
From Chapter One: Emotional Manipulators and Me – The Evolution of the Concepts
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Read the book introduction: ... Views:1195
Planning a wedding comes with many responsibilities, and one of the main questions that arise is, "Who pays for what?" It's no secret that wedding costs can cause tension and confusion, and the last thing you want is to be worried about finances leading up to your wedding. The best way to divide ... Views:1006
Every individual who has ever been part of a wedding entourage has come across wedding invitations. You may think that wedding invitations are just pieces of paper sent to invite people to come over and celebrate the union of two people in love. In reality, however, there are more things to ... Views:818
Every individual who has ever been part of a wedding entourage has come across wedding invitations. You may think that wedding invitations are just pieces of paper sent to invite people to come over and celebrate the union of two people in love. In reality, however, there are more things to ... Views:818
Soulmates are people who have the relationship most of us dreamt of when we were young and innocent: loving and erotic, inspiring and safe and – best of all – lasting. However, soulmates are not a gift from heaven which some of us had the luck to receive while the majority has been left ... Views:1426
Yet another person sitting in my office, trying to explain why his marriage was doomed for failure, and his "new love" was right!
"Greg" is a good guy. He is successful, nice, well spoken. . . by all external accounts, he's got it all. His wife of 18 years stays home and raises their two kids. ... Views:2202
I wonder what would happen in your relationship, if each day you took a few minutes to consider what was awesome about your partner? Would that influence how you spoke to them? Or how you treated them? Or how you talked about them to others?
Neil Pasricha's insightful work, The Book Of ... Views:1077
You have the ring in one hand and you’re down on bended knee. But do you know what to say when you propose marriage? “Will you marry me” just seems so abrupt.
Everyone has their own way of proposing marriage. Unfortunately, a lot of people seem to think that you only have to pop the question. ... Views:9263
Look deeply into your relationship. Is it the kind that you would want for your kids when they receive adulthood? This question gets asked of my new clients frequently. They looked puzzled at first then expressions
of shame and guilt spawn across their faces. As you might imagine, their ... Views:849
Do you know when you get on your partner’s nerves? There is a general underlying theme to the complaints couples usually share and that is that their partner is being egocentric. Egocentrism gets in the way of witnessing our partner’s beauty, gifts and contributions. It keeps us trapped in our ... Views:1594
The California Supreme Court’s decision to uphold Proposition 8 in banning gay marriage is a setback not only for gay rights, but for the psychological and spiritual growth of our country. Gay marriage concerns far more than the 5-10% of our population that identifies as gay. America’s deepest ... Views:972
It seems to be a silent but growing epidemic of miscommunication between people in any kind of relationships. If you read forum comments, help requests are popping up everywhere, and the hurt from miscommunication seems to be a shared national pain.
Several factors have contributed to the ... Views:5380
Your relationship has gotten so bad that you are talking about divorce - when you are talking at all. Should you consider a trial separation? Why and why not.
A trial separation is a huge step to take - an acknowledgement that your marriage is on the brink of collapse - a public statement of ... Views:15597
Our relationship is one of the biggest, most powerful asset and gift we have in our life! It is a true "treasure chest" worth a fortune. It can deliver unimaginable heights of satisfaction, peace, joy, love, happiness and success!!
To cash-in on this fortune we have to polish the "gems on ... Views:1719
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***What Is Narcissism?- byDr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz, The Official Guides to Marriage
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
We are often asked, "What is the best definition of Narcissism of which you are aware?" For us, there is a simple answer. It is our strong belief that the Mayo Clinic has posited the best definition and it follows:
"Narcissistic personality ... Views:1703
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
While we have learned many lessons about great marriages from the thousands of interviews with successfully married couples around the world, we have concluded that what you do in the early stages of your relationship will go a long way towards ... Views:2840
We all know the differences between men and women are like night and day and when it comes to relationships, it’s more of the same. So what’s the main difference between men and women when it comes to deciding to stay in a bad relationship or walk away? I believe that one reason women tend to ... Views:3108
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
While we acknowledge that some one-in-five new relationships in the USA currently begin on the Internet through on-line dating services, we also note that there are risks associated with utilizing these services. Before you “jump-in” to on-line ... Views:1771
Do you trust your partner? How to deal with trust issues in a relationship? How to trust your partner?
Lack of trust or what some call doubt is a mental illness that affects many relationships negatively. Lack of trust is a huge problem that can ruin the relationship. Lack of trust could lead ... Views:2927
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Falling in love with another human being is easy, but making a commitment to love them forever is “up in the air” for many people. We like the term “up in the air” from the movie title for a whole bunch of reasons, primarily because it aptly ... Views:2479
What do women want in a relationship? Do women need emotional security and emotional safety? How to give your girlfriend or wife emotional safety?
To be able to win your lover’s heart, then you need to provide your partner emotional security and safety. This is true especially for women. Of ... Views:5656