Myoung-Ae's cogitation tree:
Deadlines are for destruction. Love originates from the infinite, and has no time or spatial limitation.
Love is unconditional, but relationship is reciprocal and is therefore conditional. One has to know whether she is seeking love or relationship.
Actualizing love in a relationship requires tenacity. The problem is that nowadays we lack the patience, tolerance, and willngness to work things out. We'd rather give up and walk away from a relationship than exert our heart and soul in order to truly listen, understand, and be accepting.