Selecting Your Produce for your basket of LOVE !

-If you are grieving today remember that all things will pass. Surely this will too. -

Pick Up the Basket of Love.

I see love as a basket of many things. Those we love and care have attributes that can really make us smile or make us feel broken. Sometimes these attributes can change according to their growth and personal development . It does not always mean that it is better and wiser. We have all done foolish things even as adults. Knowledge and Stupidity dance hand in hand, sometimes, and we all all faced with everyday choices.

But there is always “Food for the SOUL” It is nourished everyday. With thoughts and feelings that constantly flow from us. From within to without. And from without to within. Each of us has to go to that “Soul Super Market” each day. What we pick up, is our choice. So do we go for the organic soul food or the high fructose corn syrup? – Lets take a few moments to mull this one through.

In the case of Love-Most of the time people fall for another due to connections and attractions. This is indeed a good thing. However having both these aspects may not always bring us joy. What do you have in your basket of love. Check out your product first.

Fresh apples and veggies will make a great salad. While old apples and veggies will just not cut it. We will end up with tummy problems just by eating them. It is the same with the basket of love. If those we love don’t have some attributes that coincidence with our desire then later there can be troubles in the horizon. There is pain in the heart and the spirit. Due to the choice of love we have picked up will end up with emotional hurt and pain that is sometimes unbearable and reflects then in all our daily life.

Many of us think that after a while that our partners and loved ones will change that someday they will see it our way. Unfortunately this is not always the case. I have known some to change, yes. But I have also known a few to remain stubborn and resolute in their choices.

The important thing is to try to get to know the person well, before stepping in and picking that basket. Don’t be afraid to ask them what they want from a relationship. Maybe not on the first date but the sooner the better.

Wait till you feel more comfortable and then have a chat, try to make it happen before you fall head over heals with someone.

If not give your relationship a time period that will help it to evolve into a good place. If it does not happen during that time frame see how you feel about it and make your choice. If you feel that you are fighting to be heard and respected all the time, that is not a good place to be. Rethink your position.

Dont let just your heart make your choice. But let also your spiritual wisdom guide you. A good choice is always made with both the heart and the mind.

No relationship is without flaw. We are human. And we are flawed. But if it truly bring you joy then it is truly worth working for.

Relationships are great vessels of personal growth and development. Without them the boundaries of the heart and the soul are never really tested.

Companionship and love is paramount for personal and spiritual development. Let us all embrace it with hope and joy. Remembering that great laughter. That wonderful moment when you felt that but if heaven on earth and Even when Gods presence flowed through to you in those moments of happiness .

So don’t ever stop going shopping for that wonderful relationship. Fill it up with great attributes. Make it truly worth your while. And remember that what we embrace reflects within us.

So check out that organic isle. Pick up Great fruit and fill your basket with love.