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    • Intimacy in Relationships - Remembering How You Got There - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Jan 18, 2010 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Are you starting to feel as though the intimacy in your relationship is dissolving right before your very eyes? If so, it doesn't have to be this way. Intimacy and relationships don't have to be mutually exclusive. You can begin to rekindle the intimacy in your relationship by learning a few ...
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    • Improve Your Marriage Intimacy by Keeping Your Real Goals in Mind - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Dec 13, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Are You Still Working As a Team? Choosing someone to spend your life with was likely not a decision you made lightly. In the first few months or years of marriage, many couples find that closeness, marriage intimacy and working together come easily. Everything is new and exciting when you're ...
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    • Is Your Marriage Intimacy Alive And Well? - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Dec 06, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      If you're married, you may have began to notice that your marriage seems a bit comfortable--not at all like when you were dating--in fact you may have even heard yourself thinking something like, I can relax, they're not going anywhere. The problem is with this kind of thinking is that many ...
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    • Understand the Purpose of Communication and Improve Marriage Intimacy - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Dec 17, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Communication Is Important Right? Most people realize how important communication is for improving their marriage intimacy. They know they must be open and honest with their partner and that they must be willing to listen to their partners wants and needs. Yet knowing what you should be doing ...
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    • Show Your Gratitude and Improve Your Marriage Intimacy - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Nov 22, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      When couples begin to have problems, their first instinct is often to look at what they're not getting. They recognize that they're not happy and that they don't have the level of marriage intimacy that they want or need. This leads to introspection and wondering what it is that's missing. While ...
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    • Get Yourself off Shaky Ground – By Shaking It Up – And Improve Your Marriage Intimacy - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Nov 08, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      When couples are on shaky ground, they often think that it's best to lay low and let the storm pass. They think that because they are having trouble, it would be the worst possible time to make changes. “Why shake things up when we're already on shaky ground?” they ask themselves. The truth is ...
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    • Marriage Intimacy - Take the Simple Approach - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Nov 01, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Marriage Intimacy Doesn't Happen by Itself Many couples assume that the longer they're married, the closer they'll be to one another. They assume that marriage intimacy comes from knowing their partner well, and the better they know their partner, the more intimate they will be with one ...
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    • Marriage Intimacy – Discover How to Achieve it and Maintain it - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Oct 31, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Ask anyone who is in a long term relationship, whether married or not, and they will tell you that these intense relationships can be hard to manage! They tell us that “it’s hard work” to keep a marriage going well and that it’s also about “give and take” and ...
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    • Relationship Self Help Therapy and the Motivation You Need to Keep It Going - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Oct 18, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Got Ups and Downs We've never met a relationship that doesn't have its share of ups and downs. Now the problem is that few couples are willing or able to spend the time and/or money it takes to do conventional relationship therapy. This is no reflection on the level of committed to the ...
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    • Express Line to Happiness in Your Relationship - Communication - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Oct 12, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      The beginning of any relationship is usually the easiest part, but maintaining that relationship-- supporting its health, and happiness is where most of us can use some help. One of the keys to preserving the freshness of a new and vital relationship is by keeping the lines of communication ...
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    • Never Stop Dreaming! - An Action Plan for Setting and Reaching Your Goals - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Oct 04, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      The American Dream of financial success, Achieving Excellence in a sport or area of interest, Looking for Key Results in personal goals… we’ve all at one point or another hoped and wished for these. Most of us have also had dreams about developing happy, healthy relationships or increasing self ...
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    • How to Save a Relationship - One NEED at a Time - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Sep 28, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Here is some relationship advice that offers you the first step toward building, saving or maintaining happy, healthy personal connections. Any relationship is on the way to being saved, if you clue into the “I need” versus the “I am grateful statement behind everyone’s words. Read on to see ...
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    • Ethical Problems - Not When You're Thinking for Yourself - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Sep 13, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Creating a successful life requires examining your choices and actions. It is the ongoing commitment to personal development and spiritual growth that ensures you will design the happy and healthy life you envision for yourself. Part of this exploration is to consider societal issues and ethical ...
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    • Dealing with Resentment in a Relationship? Find out Why! - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Sep 07, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Have you ever noticed the labels people have placed on you over the years? Have you been branded with comments like, “selfish” or “clean freak” In the resentment of the moment, have you also applied labels to people you know? The Label Me This- Brand You That contest is all about proving who’s ...
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    • Don't Settle for a No! - Learn the Art of Negotiation - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Aug 30, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Sayings such as; "it's a dog-eat-dog world" and you better "look out for number one", come from a mindset of lack, limitation and fear. This kind of mindset creates intense competition, where hearing NO is more common than hearing YES. Competition is an encouraged part of our culture. It is ...
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    • A Successful Life Starts with You - the Top 10 Questions to Ask - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Oct 31, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Don't we all want to grow into the fullest and most authentic expression of ourselves? Shakespeare wrote, "To thine own self be true." When it comes to creating a successful life the place to start is with ourselves. Read on and discover a daily practice to help you really get to know ...
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    • Chocolate Anyone? How to Create More Intimacy in Your Relationship - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Aug 16, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Do you wonder what happened to that yummy closeness you used to have with your mate? Is the sweetness of that chocolate-like intimacy missing from your relationship? Read on to discover 7 simple ways you can whip the confectionery delight of intimacy back into any relationship. So what do ...
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    • Six Steps for Increasing Your Self-Confidence - by Beth Banning & Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Aug 09, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Do any of these self-critical thoughts ever run through your mind in an endless loop; "Why do I do such stupid things?" or "What a jerk I am!" or "What's wrong with me?" If so, how would you like to edit that loop and turn those negative thoughts into a self-confidence building pep talk? of ...
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    • Is Low Self-Esteem Raining on Your Parade? - Open Your Self-Confidence Umbrella! - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Aug 02, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Does the dark cloud of "I'm not good enough" raining on your parade? Is a lack of Self-Confidence preventing you from getting to that "silver lining" of your goals? If so, you're not alone. Many people walk around with their protective umbrellas of caution opened to prevent them from getting ...
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    • The Art of Negotiation - Getting to the Yes - by Beth Banning & Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Jul 26, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      How often have you needed help but were afraid to ask for it because you were afraid of hearing that dreaded word "NO"? Do you think this fear had any influence on you reaching your goals or your level of personal success? What if you believed that there was a "yes" hidden beneath every "no", ...
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    • Relationship Magic 101 - by Beth Banning & Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Jul 19, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Do you want to believe in magical relationships--the click your heels three times--answer to having healthy, happy and intimate relationships? But does your own life make this desire look impossible? Do you sometimes think, if only I had a partner who was willing to do their fair share. Well ...
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    • The How-To of Relationship Confidence - by Beth Banning & Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Jul 12, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Relationship Confidence! It begins by identifying WHAT you want that's missing from your relationship, and then learning how to craft a clear INTENTION that will support you in getting it. Intentions - What Do They Have To Do With Relationships? You may believe that intentions are mostly ...
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    • What Every Person Should Know About Handling Difficult Conversations - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Jul 05, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Do you ever avoid talking about the impact of wars around the world or the economic situation for fear it may turn into a debate, or even a full blown argument? If so, it's time for you to take back the power to have meaningful, enjoyable conversations with your friends. If you're like most ...
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    • Why Is Responsibility Important? It's Leads True Happiness - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Jun 29, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Do you sometimes feel like a piece of paper blown every-which-way in the wind, and without much say in the matter? Or do you often find yourself doing what you think you "should do", rather than what you want to do? If so, imagine feeling the true freedom of always choosing what you will ...
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    • How to Deal with Resentment - Take Responsibility for Your Happiness! - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Jun 29, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Do you sometimes feel like a piece of paper blown every-which-way in the wind, and without much say in the matter? Or do you often find yourself doing what you think you "should do", rather than what you want to do? If so, imagine feeling the true freedom of always choosing what you will ...
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    • How to Turn Low Self Esteem into Powerful Positive Self Talk - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on May 14, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Do you get down on yourself so often that you feel depressed or weighed down by your negative thoughts? Have you lost the self confidence you once had? It may be helpful to know that you’re not alone. Many people have an internal dialogue that fuels negative thoughts and hinders their ...
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    • Want More Love and Respect in Your Relationships? Start by Increasing Your Own Sense of Self Worth - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on May 04, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Do you keep getting in relationships where it seems as if you're being taken for granted--where you give, and you give, but get little or nothing in return? Are you beginning to wonder why people keep treating you this way? If so, you are probably also feeling pretty confused, sad, and are ...
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    • Letting Go of Resentment May Not Be Easy, But it is Simple - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Apr 25, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Do you treat your friends with love and respect, but when it's their turn, they let you down? Do you end up feeling resentful when your friends just don't give into the friendship as much as you do? Knowing how to deal with this resentment in a positive way--or even better, avoiding it ...
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    • Self Esteem Issues? Three Steps That Lead to More Self Confidence - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Apr 14, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Would you like to build your self-confidence and self-esteem? Are you worried it might not be possible because you've had such a long history of put-downs, failures, and negative self-concept? If so, read on because this article will show you why it's never too late to increase your self esteem ...
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    • Commitment Phobia: Cheating Boyfriend or Girlfriend - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Apr 07, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Wouldn't it be nice if you could tell when someone was going to be a cheating girlfriend or cheating boyfriend BEFORE you get involved with them? Don’t you wish there was something you could do that would help you avoid having a cheating spouse? There is something you can do, and it begins with ...
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    • Stop Worrying Your Relationships Away - by Beth Banning & Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Mar 31, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Do you lack the self-esteem and confidence you need to create healthy and satisfying relationships? Do you sometimes find yourself worrying so much about what other people think of you that motivation or positive thinking is all but out of your reach? Low self-esteem is a common problem that ...
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    • The Art of Self-Love Starts with You! - by Beth Banning & Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Mar 24, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Have you ever wondered what unconditional love actually means, or what it would take to give yourself or someone else this kind of love? We believe everything in your world is a reflection of YOU. And that's the good news! Why? Because if everything starts with you, then you don't have to ...
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    • Rebuilding Trust After Lying - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Mar 18, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Has someone close to you broken your trust by lying? Is it difficult to get back on track and reestablish that trust relationship you thought you had? If so, there is hope! It's possible to get back to having a healthy and satisfying relationship with a person who has been lying. Understanding ...
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    • Love Yourself and Authentic Happiness Will Follow - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Mar 10, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Do you ever find it difficult to love yourself because you think you're unlovable, you're a failure, or you're just not worth the time? Does your inner critic put you down when you fail live up to your own expectations? If so, and you're looking for a way to win the inner battle with yourself ...
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    • Find True Happiness - A Values Driven Life - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Mar 05, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Nobody wants to settle for a life without the things they really want, but what if you’re still unsure of what those things are for you? How do you move forward to create a life that fills you with joy? A deeper look may reveal things you never knew about yourself--and without being clear ...
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    • Relationships Happiness - Say Yes, Only When You Mean Yes - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Jan 13, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Are honesty and building trust important to you, and yet sometimes--even though you just don't feel like it--when your friends and family ask you to do something or go somewhere, you agree to their request anyway? It's not uncommon or "wrong" to want to do what feels good to you. Even if the ...
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    • Chronic Illness Getting You Down? - There Is Help! - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Dec 08, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Do you worry yourself sick over being sick? Do you wish you felt more peaceful instead? If so, you will be glad to learn that you can break yourself of this worrying habit with a little information and a commitment to practice the steps in this article. Whether you are coping with chronic ...
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    • Got Personal Goals? How to Reach Them ASAP - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Oct 17, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      If you feel frustrated, concerned, or challenged when it comes to both setting your goals and achieving results, you are certainly not alone. Especially in our American Dream-driven society, people often feel a pressure to arrive at their goals “ASAP.” While this may seem to be a ...
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    • Relationship Problems? - Three Steps That Lead You To The Magical Relationship You've Always Wanted - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Oct 03, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Are you involved in a relationship that isn't as happy as you had hoped for? Do you ever feel confused or frustrated about how to get the love and respect you desire? If so... you probably feel scared about what the future holds if you stay in this unhappy relationship. Read on to discover ...
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    • Feeling Lonely? - How To Attract A Guy And Make New Friends after Being Widowed - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Sep 19, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      There will come a time when you're ready to move forward after grieving the death of a spouse, to get on with your life and move ahead and discover what this new chapter has to offer. When this happens, you may find it challenging to stop dwelling eternally on what you have lost, and begin to ...
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    • Want Love And Respect? How To Create Healthy, Happy Relationships - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Aug 31, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Are there some relationships in your life that just take more work to maintain than you're enjoying? Do you find yourself wanting to be compassionate and be able to listen in a caring way but it's just not supporting you and the kind of life you want to have? We agree that nurturing love and ...
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    • Poor Self Esteem Because Of Body Image? Discover A New Health Method For Losing Weight and Start to Enjoy Your Body Now - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Aug 20, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Are you suffering from poor self esteem due to body image issues? Have fad diets left you feeling confused and frustrated? We'd like you to consider that rather than your challenge being purely a physical one, the difficulty you are having losing weight might also have an undiscovered ...
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    • Time Management? Creating A New Kind Of Work Life Balance - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Jul 15, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      In trying to keep up with this world's increasingly fast pace, it's easy to lose sight of what's important. Perhaps you live day-to-day, task-to-task without the balance in your life that keeps what's most important to you in the forefront. How do you live your life productively and also ...
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    • Happiness Starts With Unconditional Self-Love And Creates True Self-Esteem - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Jul 05, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Have you ever wondered what unconditional love actually means, or what it would take to give yourself or someone else this kind of love? We believe everything in your world is a reflection of YOU. And that's the good news! Why? Because if everything starts with you, then you don't have to FIX, ...
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    • The Negotiation Tango - Learning The Steps That Lead To Success - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Jun 16, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Take a moment to think about what you want and how negotiation could play a part in it. Do you want more rewarding interactions with your family? Think it’s time for a raise at work? What if you could negotiate a business loan to start that business you’ve always wanted? You can ...
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    • Frustrated With Your Relationships? - It's Not Just About You - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Jun 16, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      It can be easy to feel hurt by the strong words your loved ones tell you. You might find yourself wondering why they would say something like that to you? What have you done to deserve that kind of pain? Anyone who has ever been in a close relationship knows that problems can get out of hand ...
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    • Ensuring Successful Interactions With Others through Effective Business Communication - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on May 13, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      If you struggle to create cohesiveness with others in your business or in the workplace in general, you will benefit from reading on. This article is all about creating strong, mutually beneficial relationships that promote increased productivity while leaving everyone feeling like they got what ...
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    • Magical Relationships! - Stop Complaining And Start Creating - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Feb 21, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Does it seem as if people want more than you can give? Do you feel pressured to keep them all happy? If so, you're not alone. Change this uncomfortable pattern now by learning new ways of creating more love and respect, as well as little-known methods that will help you to create happy and ...
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    • Need Relationship Advice? - Seven Ways To Keep the "ME" In Your "WE" - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Feb 14, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Have you ever started a new relationship that seemed just perfect--the one you've been waiting for--and then seemingly out of the blue, it all starts to go bad? If so, you're not alone. We're guessing you, like most of us, want a healthy, successful relationship with a caring loving partner. ...
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    • Angry About Feeling Angry? A New Way to Control Your Anger--Learn How! - by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Submitted on Feb 04, 2008 from Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
      Have you ever said something in the heat of anger that you have regretted later? Does this behavior confuse you? If so, you aren't the only one. This article offers steps that you can take for living your life with fewer regrets and feeling more peace and happiness in the process. Find the ...
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