You’ve suffered through the break up and now you’re trying to put your heart back together. It’s hard, isn’t it? Emotions are fluid and constantly changing as you try to absorb that you and your boyfriend aren’t together anymore. The situation takes on an even more sombre tone if you haven’t stopped loving him yet. There are so many levels of grief that a woman must work her way through after the most important relationship of her life ends.

Perhaps you’ve already started pulling away from the mutual friends you two have shared because you’ve noticed they are more “his” friends than “yours.” Maybe you’ve stopped all contact with his family members because you don’t feel it’s your place to be present in their lives anymore. And you more than likely have packed up any of his stray belongings left at your place because looking at them is just too painful.

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There’s also the not-so-small issue of Facebook to deal with. I’m asked about Facebook on my blog more than anything else lately. Women who have been dumped or who dumped their guy and regret it, want to know how to handle the issue of being his friend on the site. I have a few pieces of advice that can prove really helpful if you’re struggling with this issue now.

Don’t spend hours looking at his wall. Wondering what your ex boyfriend is up to is natural. If you spend countless hours looking at what he’s posting on his wall and trying to read between those lines, that’s a huge waste of your time. He’s going to be different now that you two aren’t together. You’re not going to be able to find some hidden message in any of the photos or posts he makes. It’s also going to hurt more than you can imagine if you read anything that suggests he’s interested in someone new.

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Don’t investigate his friends’ list. One woman who wrote to me about her ex boyfriend kept a record of his friends. Each day she’s scour over it looking for anyone new in an effort to see if he was already dating another woman. Don’t torture yourself in this way. Most people add and delete people from their friends’ list on a daily and weekly basis. If you see an unfamiliar, pretty face you may jump to the wrong conclusion so it’s best to keep your prying eyes to yourself.

Don’t try and contact him through Facebook. Posting anything on your ex boyfriend’s wall is a huge no-no. I don’t care if it’s a fun picture you took of the two of you while you were still a couple or if it’s a news story about his favorite sports team. Don’t do it. You also need to stop yourself before you send him any private messages on the site.

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Defriend him before he defriends you. Can you imagine waking up one day only to discover that your ex boyfriend has not only removed you from his friends’ list but he’s also blocked you from seeing his page at all? The pain that would bring you would be debilitating. Yes, it’s just a social network site that we all frequent and its meaning shouldn’t go beyond that, but in the case of a broken relationship, it does.

Make the Move to Defriend Him Before Your Ex Does it to You

I really can’t stress how important it is for you to take the initiative to remove your ex boyfriend from your friends’ list. I know that it means giving up the ability to look at his stuff whenever the urge strikes you and you’re likely worried that he’ll take offense at it. That’s not the reaction he’ll have.

What will happen once he realizes you’re not his Facebook friend anymore is he’ll see that you’re truly strong enough to take control of yourself in the relationship. He’ll also take it as a sign that you are separating yourself from him.

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Once your ex boyfriend feels those things, he’ll have that panicked realization that things may be over for good between you two. It’s very likely he’ll call or text you at this point to touch base or see how you are. That will open up the door for you two to begin talking about getting back together again.

Find the inner strength to defriend him. You’ll be glad you did.

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This Tactics Is Manipulative! Please Be Ethical!

Before we continue, I need to let you know that the tactic you are going to learn is considered manipulative.

Manipulative? Yes! Effective? Of Course!

The reason I am sharing this tactic with you is because it is extremely effective. Of course, I am not going to say that it works for everyone or every situation.

For example, if your ex broke up with you because you cheated, then this tactic is obviously not going to work. It will only make the situation worse.

However, in a lot of situation, this tactic can work really well.

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Ethical or Not! It Is Really Up To You!

As mentioned, this tactic is quite manipulative. However, that does not mean it is unethical.

At the end of the day, it depends on your intention.

If you truly love your ex and want to take care of them forever, this tactic can help you achieve your goal.

If you are just using this tactic to get your ex back and dump them again for revenge, this is obviously unethical.

I really hope you have the right intention before you read on to learn more.

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How To Use Your Ex's Curiosity To Your Advantage

It doesn't matter whether it is your ex who dumps you or you who dump your ex, you can actually use Facebook to get your ex back.

First, you need to understand that human beings are curious by nature. If you have just broken up, you are advised not to contact your ex for the time being. Sooner or later, your ex is going to start thinking about you. Your ex is going to be curious about what is going on in your life and why you are not contacting them.

And when your ex is curious, what do you think they will do? Well, they are going to 'take a look' at your Facebook account.

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You Need To Show Your Ex That You Have Moved On Using Facebook

I know it may sound a little bit counterintuitive. You may think that if you want to get your ex back, you need to be focusing on them.

Unfortunately, that is not true. Sometimes, the harder you try, the faster you push your ex away. Therefore, a much better way to get your ex back is to move on.

Go out with friends. Socialize more. Participate in more activities. Do all the things that you haven't been doing while you were still in that relationship.

And of course, you want to take photos and post those photos on your Facebook account.

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When your ex visit your Facebook account and see this new side of you, they will be surprised. In fact, they may even have a tinge of regret for breaking up with you.

This is what you are trying to achieve. You want to make your ex regret breaking up with you even if it is just a little bit.

How to Make Your Ex Jealous And Crazy

Here is the manipulative part. You can take a photo with another guy/gal. However, please use this tactic with caution. It can backfire on you if you do it wrongly.

Take Group Photo! Not Individual Photo!

Some people may recommend that you just take a photo with another guy/gal and use it as your profile photo on Facebook.

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This can really backfire on you for several reasons.

First, your ex may think that you are in a new relationship and totally give up hope on getting back together with you. Second, your ex may realize that you are just trying to make them jealous and feel disgusted with you.

Therefore, I advise you to take a group photo with a group of friends instead of individual photo with just you and the other guy/gal.

Of course, in all the group photos, you want to make sure that the other guy/gal is standing beside you.

Just this alone is enough to make your ex jealous. At least, your ex will not jump to conclusion that you are in a new relationship or you are just trying to make them jealous.

In fact, these group photos will cause your ex to think whether both of you are in a relationship. They will come chasing after you before you are snatched by the other guy/gal.

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But What If My Ex Doesn't Visit My Facebook Profile?

If that is the case, you need to be more proactive and contact your ex.

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Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here

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