One of the most complicated issues for parents during divorce is sorting out issues related to child custody and visitation. Child custody is often provided to those parents with whom the best interests of the child are preserved. Family courts often prefer parents who can prove that they are the best caretakers of the child. In certain cases, both parents want custody of their child and will do whatever possible to win their child custody case. However, there are certain tips which can be quite useful when faced with a child custody trial.
One of the most important factors in determining child custody is the parent’s availability and how involved each parent is in their child’s activities. Family courts usually favor the parent who spends the most time with the child. Hence, for help to win a child custody case, a parent should spend substantial time with their child and take an active role in parenting duties such as going to their child’s school, participating in their school activities, and tending to their medical and dental needs. Parent’s involved in unhealthy relationships or exposing their child to situations involving domestic violence will harm their case for child custody.
Parents should have a healthy behavior while caring for their children. Any criticism with regard to the other parent should be stopped immediately. Frustrating the relationship between the child and the other parent will be damaging to a parent’s child custody case. Family courts often look to see whether parents are denying access to the other parent during child custody cases. Documentation of records is another important strategy. This includes documenting important events in the child’s life, birth details, health records and the participation of the parent in the child’s activities. Another important strategy to win a child custody case is to prove why the other parent should not have the custody of the child. Apart from these strategies, hiring a good attorney and being flexible regarding the schedule of other parent can be beneficial.
Steven Carlson is the author of How to Win Child Custody: Proven Strategies that can Win You Custody and Save You Thousands in Attorney Cost! and founder of Child Custody Coach in Orange County, California. He is known nationally as The Custody Coach™ and provides individualized help and one-on-one coaching services to parents in the field of child custody cases and visitation issues, divorce, child custody evaluations, parenting techniques, and attorney and client fee disputes. Steven Carlson provides support for Custody Match, a Southern California divorce attorney and consumer matching service.