Is Eliminating struggle and pain more important than magnetizing love, prosperity and calmness?

I think so. Eliminating, releasing, surrendering the thought forms that created the struggling and pain in the first place, needs to be trashed, deleted, recycled into the trash bin outside of your mind. When that happens, automatically, you will begin to attract love, prosperity and joy into the empty spaces where they were once lodged.

It really takes as much energy to invite fear, to live with it and be it as it does to live without fearful thoughts and Be in joy and peace instead. So, why not live without fear and its mobster related friends and be happier? Let’s eliminate struggle from our minds by choosing to remove “can’t”, isn’t that terrible? and the word “problem” from our vocabulary, our Mind stuff. Let’s live our life to the fullest, highest and best.

Decide not to be joined at the hip in world chaos and you will be leading others to the Light within themselves by just remaining calm, centered, loving unconditionally. Serve others in a conscious manner whatever needs to be served.

I had to choose to replace words like, “I gained two pounds, isn’t that terrible?” to “that is quite a learning experience.” or your words of “disaster” to something that will register in your subconscious mind more gently so as not to form an unwanted thought form (tumor, etc) in your physical body form. Why? Because the subconscious mind believes every single word you say, silently or aloud and acts on your words as a faithful servant because it is just that, a faithful servant. It is Impartial, non-judgmental and non critical.

Showing your family members, neighbors, friends how to struggle by being angry, resentful, bitter and unhappy is not setting a good example for them to grow in love and kindness. Show them you are a magnet not for destruction but a magnet for construction, possibilities, peace and kindness that you are capable of offering. Expand your comfort zone. Take risks.

I had to choose to think a different way. You can choose to drive home a different way. Choose to move from taking so many pharmaceuticals believing that you don’t know the way to health without them, only your doctors knows. I am not recommending to stop taking medications. I am saying put more trust in your I AM Presence, your God-self and in the fact that you do know how to heal yourself. You may find that your best friend or next door neighbor is a natural healer, a Reiki Master, a naturopathic doctor, a teacher of natural healing, etc. like I did, when you open up to the universal truths that are available to us everyday.

Choose to change your diet if that is what you believe that is being conveyed to you. Eat less devitalized, processed food, and dead beverages like coffee, colas, beer, etc. Allow your body to detox from eating foods unhealthy for you. Choose to take sunbaths, treat yourself to aromatherapy massages, join a spa for the various healing treatments, and choose to serve others unconditionally. Go to a luxurious restaurant, once a month or buy a pair of shoes that you really like.

Forgive yourself or forgive someone you said you would never forgive. Release yourself from the mental prison cell that you have inhabited for 10-25 years. The door has never been locked, except in your own mind. The key has always been there for you, within yourself. Change the thoughts and you change your experiences of struggle to that of being non-existent for you any longer.

What’s more important being happy or being right though wrong?

Author's Bio: 

Daya Devi-Doolin is an internationally known author and speaker of metaphysical and self-growth books and topics. Her inspirational speeches share her secrets for a successful life through an empowering thought system. She has assisted hundreds and hundreds of clients over the past 25 years. She is the best-selling author of, The Only Way Out Is In: The Secrets of the 14 Realms to Love, Happiness and Success!; Super Vita-Minds: How To Stop Saying I Hate You….To Yourself and a NABE Pinnacle Book Achievement Award Recipient for her books, The Only Way Out Is In: The Secrets of the 14 Realms to Love, Happiness and Success! and another NABE Pinnacle Book Achievement Award for co-authoring Americans Saving Ourselves Together: How to Thrive in the 21st Century. She’s received an EDC Creations Literary Award for The Only Way Out Is In book in the Non-Fiction/Motivational Category. She writes, performs and plays guitar under the Duo name of aka Level Seven with her husband Chris. Their music is distributed and sold by Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Padaran Publications and books distributed by DeVorss Company. Her philosophy is “Thoughts are things. Thoughts are substance and form. They draw unto themselves the likeness of their form. We have the power by our Word to form all that we wish to create or mis-create." ~Daya Devi-Doolin