We're all looking for that special someone with whom we can have a great time, laugh and be ourselves, but if you really want to meet such a guy, then you sure won't be able to if you're not open minded and don't do something about it. And since many people don't really have the confidence of going out there to meet various people, they'll consider starting with online dating. So let's say that you met this wonderful guy online, but you want to get to know him more and while you're at it, why not add in a bit of sensuality as well? If you're not sure how to do that, just take a closer look at the sexting tips below and you'll have the perfect recipe for a pretty hot sexting session.
When sexting with someone, you should always start in the affirmative and write something like "I want to" instead of "We never". At the same time, you also need to be very careful with the words you use and yes, we all know that a picture is worth a thousand words, but when it comes to fantasy and sex, kinky talking can go much further than a sexy photo of your bum. However, if you're not ready for a dirty talk, then it might be a good idea to go for some sexy compliments. At the end of the day, any man loves having his ego struck more than his ding dong.
- Don't Write A Letter
When you're sexting, the purpose is to feel desired, attractive and empowered and not to share raunchy, passionate or long winded thoughts. Keep it a short, because this way the both of you can take part in something that is sensual and very enjoyable. You know very well than when you have to read a long text, you can easily lose that wonderful spontaneity that makes sexting so much fun.
While initially this sounds a bit dorky, it's not the case. A comma or an exclamation mark can really go a long way when you're sexting and you can give new meanings to an apparently simple sentence. Just take a look at this example: "I'm coming so hard!" and "I'm coming." Now you understand why playing with punctuation and adjectives is so hot?
As for photos, even if you fully trust your partner, you can never be too safe and that is why it's a better idea to take close-up photographs instead of photos that include your face. By doing so, you're not only playing it safe, but it's also a very hot challenge for your partner. However, no one will blame you if you're still hesitant about this, but if you really insist on taking nude photos of those sexy erotic spots of yours, consider adding a semi-permanent tattoo to throw off unwanted peepers.
- Never Reveal Everything
We're all attracted by mysteries and this is also applicable when it comes to sexting. And if you’ve been practicing for a while now, you may already know that showing everything is not as sexy as showing a little. Get creative with what and the way you want to reveal and always leave something to the imagination . This is because it's much more enticing when little bits are revealed or parts peek out.
- Drinking And Sexting Don't Go Well Together
Common sense tells us that things can easily get out of hand when you're drinking and even if you're having a lot of fun, feeling horny and desired by the man on the other line, it may turn out to be a very big mistake in the morning. Not only that, but imagine how you'd feel if in your fervor you send out some very hot pictures of yourself to the wrong person? Yikes! Just be sure to leave the alcohol aside while you want to have this kind of fun and you'll thank yourself later for it.
We're all tempted to go back and read those hot sexting messages we've sent and received, but just imagine what can happen if you lose or someone steals your phone. This is a private matter and you surely don't want the world to see what you’ve been up to. That is why you should enjoy your sexts and then erase them from your phone so you won't have anything to worry about later.
With that being said, these are the most important sexting tips you should keep in mind when you want to sext with somebody. By being aware of them, you'll play it safe and at the same time have a very hot, sensual and interesting experience to say the least.
Mike Hatcher writes on mens rights and alternative relationships such as swingers, polyamory and open relationships. Mike writes for the largest swingers blog http://blog.swinglifestyle.com/