Do you ever wonder why things you try just do not work out? Or you have an idea, but never finish. Here is an answer. It starts with sounding like a tongue twister.

Today I am going to share some secrets kept secret in the movie The Secret, based on the Law of Attraction . Guess what the secret is? If you guessed keeping your dreams a secret until they are ready to give birth you were right.

What exactly is a secret? The Encarta World English Dictionary defines secret as: 1. Known by only a few people and intentionally withheld from general knowledge, 2. Working or operating without the knowledge of the general public, 3. A little known technique, approach, or piece of information that is the key to success in a particular endeavor, 4.mysterious and often beyond common understanding.

The dictionary actually seems to understand the power of keeping a secret. You see when you have an idea, a dream, business idea, product, or new invention, your chances of manifesting your project into success are extremely greater if you hold it as a secret until it is ready to be born. Reason being is: because we get a chemical high from sharing our project. If we share before it is completed we prematurely get our chemical high, and then our brain is no longer as engaged, and suddenly our passion , drive is put out, like water to a fire.

When we are excited about something new, our energy is high and it is very tempting to give all that energy away, because we want to feel important, valuable, worthy, and liked. Only this can work against us because once it is shared we feel depleted and often whom we shared it with will take our energy and run with it.This is not saying be afraid of others stealing your ideas, no fear encouraged here. I mean your drive, your excitement.

The Law Of Attraction is based on a magnetic pull. If you watched the waves at the ocean you would see they crash coming in, and then retrieve back with a mighty pulling force. If you tell to soon the wave will already have crashed, and you will lose the pulling magnetic force, to manifest your dreams . However if you hold on to your energy you will have a magnetic pull, pulling attraction toward manifesting your desires.

‘All achievements, whether in business, intellectual, or spiritual world, are the result of definitely directed thoughts….’James Allen As You Think This is an easy task for a focused person with high drive, as they have no time to tell or get distracted and they get excited simply through achieving their goals.

Another way to look at this is called the love cup. Imagine your project is filling your love cup up, you feel excited, happy and creative. Then you start telling people. Each time you tell you pour out a little love here and a little love there, and discover you cup is empty. Then you feel drained and look for something new to fill your cup with a quick fix.

The second secret left out of the movie The Secret in the Law Of Attraction is connecting with the invisible. The original first writings on the secret had a strong relationship with God. What ever name you call GOD or your source is unimportant, it is the Invisible Relationship, which matters. Through having an Invisible Relationship one is able to feel worthy, valued and liked, making it easier to hold on to your power. Plus one is plugged into a continued energy source filled with just the right solutions. If you are longing for answers to your future lie on the earth and feel connected to mother earth this will help you feel grounded. Then look up at the sky and imagine your heart being connected to this greater Source above. Take a breath in and hold for a count of four and then let your breath out. Repeat. When you feel connected to Source ask for a message. All relationships take dedicated time to have a connection.

"When love awakens in your life, in the night of your heart, it is like the dawn breaking within you. Where before there was anonymity, now there is intimacy; where before there was fear, now there is courage; where before in your life there was awkwardness, now there is a rhythm of grace and gracefulness; where before you used to be... jagged, now you are elegant and in rhythm with your self. When love awakens in your life, it is like a rebirth, a new beginning." - John O'Donohue, Anam Cara: A Book of Celtic Wisdom

God or your Source is pure Love.

There once was a wise Master teacher and his student came to him and asked how will I know I have become a master? The Master replied when you do instead of tell, and be instead of have.

So in conclusion the real Secrets of the Law Of Attraction are the power of holding on to your dreams , your power until your project is complete. Do instead of tell. And beware of your EGO which Edges God Out and hungers for the limelight. Connect with this greater Source. Be instead of have.

Author's Bio: 

Coach Louise Rouse CPPC, CHT, Transpersonal Therapist and Biofeedback Therapist. She coined Invisible Relationships, and is an authority on the Law of Attraction and Invisible Relationships. Now is founder of Planetary Coaching Academy, If you are interested in coaching or becoming a coach to help in the transitions of this new age, call 541 821-6213
Copy writes Sept 2011
Planetary Coach TM