1. For a quickie
You have a few minutes and you want it hot, quick and sexy! Try Wall Standing Sex where both partners are standing doing penetration. The female uses a wall to support herself while being penetrated. Tip: Bend your knees to change the angle of penetration. The guy may wish to intense the depth of penetration by holding up his partner’s leg or legs.
2. To have a baby
It is a common myth that some sex positions are better than others if you’re trying to get pregnant. The best sex position has to be the one that works best for you. My tip to have a baby is to have lots of sex, and enjoying the process, including the infinite sexual positions one can be in.
3. For pleasure/ fun
We all probably all know the woman on top position. How about the reverse cowgirl sex position? This happens when the woman is facing away from her partner, who is lying down. Embrace your more assertive side and buy yourself a lasso or whip! The actual use of it on your partner is optional. Don’t forget to make an appropriate noise that goes something along the lines of “Ye-ha!”
Dr. Martha Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. She provides sexuality and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples, conducts sexual education workshops and speaks at public events. For more, visit www.eroscoaching.com or email drmarthalee@eroscoaching.com .