My Biography
Jay Reiss, M.S.W. The Online Dating Coach
http://www.online-dating-coach.com/
My journey started in 1976, while I was working in a private hospital in Eastern Pennsylvania. I was really surprised at how quickly patients recovered when their diets were improved and food supplements added. And then, a friend gave me a book about natural foods and holistic healing - and my vision began to grow about coaching clients toward better health...
And so I traveled across the country and settled in Los Angeles. The year was 1978. I had the opportunity to follow my dream when I entered a graduate school program which, after three years of hard work, I completed in 1981.
It was my wish to broadcast my message with the widest net possible. But little did I know just how wide (and deep) that net would be!
I started as a nutritional consultant and teacher and began publishing articles in newspapers and magazines. Within a few months I was syndicating my own newspaper column - I called it "Nutrition in Mind" - and I supplemented my publishing work by lecturing throughout Southern California. I made guest appearances on television and radio shows - and gave workshops at six colleges in the greater Los Angeles area. I also worked as the Public Education Chairman of the American Cancer Society, and lectured through the Speaker's Bureau for the American Heart Association. Between the workshops, my media appearances, and my published work, my name was frequently in the papers - and on magazine covers throughout all of North America.
By the following year, clients and friends were asking me how to do some networking - like I had been doing mine! The momentum I established in the early 1980's gave me a strong base to work from, and helped me expand my business. And so I began my practice as a Coach.
I started coaching at a time when very few people understood what coaching meant outside the realm of sports. I took to coaching like a duck to water, and within a very short time, I established myself as one of the first professional coaches on the planet - and the only Marketing Coach that I knew of anywhere.
Following the same principles and strategies that effectively launched my health services and publishing career, I started marketing myself in magazines with a worldwide circulation. In the mid-to-late 80's I created an international reputation through my full-page magazine advertisements and innovative direct mail campaigns. By 1990, I was reaching over two million readers every month. I was frequently invited to speak in front of large audiences and was the keynote speaker at international conventions and lots of seminars and workshops.
In the early 1990's, America Online practically dominated the Internet social networking world, and when they launched their online dating portal, millions of people came on board. It quickly became apparent to me that email and Instant Messaging were taking over the minds and spirits of people all across America. That was my opportunity to be of service in a larger way myself.
Working with a small group of volunteers, I started the world's first online support group for people who were obsessed with online dating. We worked with hundreds of people all across America and we all learned a lot about online dating ourselves.
As the dating services grew and the Internet expanded, new dating sites sprang up everywhere like mushrooms. Using my marketing know-how and a lot of common sense, I applied my background in Psychology and Social Work as I watched this new medium grow around me. At first it was my friends who needed help, and then friends of my friends, and before I knew it I was creating dating profiles for people all across the country. I put my first website up ("Love Letter Writer") and not long after that, I started working with clients around the globe.
The 90's flew by in a flurry of business, strategic alliances, and a continual flow of projects. I was typically coaching 20 to 30 clients at a time and it was during this period that my team and I produced nearly five thousand advertisements. It was also during this period that I wrote and published five books on various aspects of Direct Marketing, which have been sold all over the world.
By the year 2000, life was good - everything I wrote was being published just like clockwork, within days. I had a brainstorm of an idea to write a Personal Ad that year, and I contracted with over a hundred websites reaching 10 million people.
To my great surprise (and to the amusement of my friends) over the next 18 months, more than 25,000 women wrote to me. It was at that point that I realized I was onto something big!
And so, from all of this, my current coaching practice has emerged. Now I work with people who are looking for their Soulmates. I design Dating Profiles and coach singles on how to succeed with Online Dating - following the same principles that I have used myself.
Please feel free to call, and let's get to know each other - I'm sure you'll find the experience very refreshing!
Best wishes,
Jay Reiss, M.S.W.
The Online Dating Coach
"I'll help you meet your Soulmate"
Office (805) 964-6574
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Welcome the Dating Coach - The New Super Hero of 21st Century Online Dating
The Online Dating Industry is exploding with millions of new members joining every single day. It is estimated that within the next five years, almost 50% of all single adults will use Online Dating Services to meet other singles!
As more and more people use online dating services and dating agencies to help them find their Soulmates, a new specialty service has emerged in the form of an Online Dating Coach . While the online dating sites compile your personal information so they can do the matchmaking, a Dating Coach works directly with the clients to help them establish and develop the relationships which start within the agency. A Dating Coach has the responsibility of helping clients effectively market themselves on the dating site. Essentially, an Online Dating Coach provides personal coaching services to clients so they can put their best foot forward in making contact with the other dating site members.
An Online Dating Coach is a dating specialist who, after interviewing and working with a client and using special coaching assessment tools, will help the client put his or her thoughts, feelings, and values on paper (so to speak) and in doing so create the client's Online Dating Profile which will be seen by the other members.
In addition to this, an Online Dating Coach will help his clients see how their thoughts and feelings are affecting their dating matches, and will offer guidance and feedback to enhance the client's likelihood of success. In many cases, a Dating Coach's clients have been away from the single marketplace for a good number of years. Therefore a bit of rehabilitation is helpful for some clients as a way to familiarize them with 21st century dating practices. A lot has changed in the world of dating in the past ten or twenty years - indeed, even in the past five years have dating rituals evolved!
A Dating Coach usually works by phone, and typically, weekly or twice-a-week telephone coaching sessions are scheduled at the convenience of the client, sometimes after work and occasionally on the weekends. At the beginning of the coaching process, a Dating Coach will do an initial assessment to get the larger picture of what's occurred in the client's personal life. During that assessment, the client's personal values are mined through a series of open-ended questions. This interview sets the stage for the effective coaching sessions that follow.
Ongoing coaching sessions with a Dating Coach may be as simple as meeting by phone for an hour to discuss the men or women you've dated over the past week, or they may become as intricate as having your Dating Coach listen carefully while you practice flirting with strangers, or role playing to get ready for "the big night out."
Perhaps the most important aspect of selecting a Dating Coach is investigating their professional academic credentials. You'll want to make sure that your Dating Coach has been professionally trained of course. A Dating Coach who has a background in Psychology or Social Work (if not both) can be very helpful in drawing out the qualities of a client's personality that he or she may not even be aware of themselves. The Dating Coach can then help the client express themselves so their dates have the benefit of their true feelings and personality. As a simplistic but illustrative example, shyness in a person is often mistaken for conceit. The person who seems unfriendly is often just bashful, but this quality may lead to a misunderstanding - especially on a first date. A properly trained Dating Coach can resolve this type of issue by helping the client compensate for his or her shyness and even make it work in their favor.
As with any form of counseling, when you seek the assistance of a Dating Coach, be objective but also look within so you choose someone who sincerely wants to help you. The more your Dating Coach is willing to work with you as his client, the more committed he is to providing the service he's promised. At the very least, the service of a Dating Coach will help you learn more about yourself and make you more comfortable with the personality you express to the world. Since a large part of dating is your wish to feel good about yourself through the companionship of another, just feeling better about yourself overall will make your life richer for having had the experience of being coached. And feeling better about yourself can easily lead you to the relationship you've been dreaming about - and the reason you joined that dating service in the first place!
Jay Reiss is an Online Dating Coach who has worked with more than two thousand clients worldwide! He'll help you design your Online Dating Profile and show you how to succeed with Online Dating! He offers a free telephone coaching session (a $100.00 value - free!) and has Free Online Dating Advice on his website: http://www.online-dating-coach.com
Jay Reiss, M.S.W.
Office (805) 964-6574
http://www.online-dating-coach.com/
http://www.love-detective.com/