10 Essential Tips of Online Dating

So you’re considering looking online for that special someone. Internet dating can be a lot of fun. You can meet not only the love of your life but friends for life. Here are some common sense tips that will keep you safe and help you successfully maximize your online dating experience.

Tip #1Trust Your Instinct. If you are feeling less than excited about a potential date, cancel it. On the opposite end of the emotions spectrum, be careful if you have intense feelings - move cautiously.

Tip #2Put safety first and never reveal too much about yourself until you are as certain as you can be that the other person’s intentions are honorable. Don’t rush into any relationship. Take time to get comfortable and never allow yourself to be pressured into moving ahead before you are confident.

Tip #3NEVER EVER meet anyone without letting a friend or family member know the details, including a contact number. Always meet during the day in a public place, like a coffee shop. Avoid drinking alcohol and never leave your drink unattended. It’s a sad fact that not everyone you meet has your best interest at heart. Being overly cautious is better than not being cautious enough.

Tip #4Never lie or exaggerate about yourself on your profile or when corresponding with new acquaintances. People will eventually find out the truth and resent your dishonesty.

Tip #5Fill out the entire profile. Unanswered questions may leave the impression that you have something to hide. Take as much time as you need to make your profile reflect the person you truly are and the attributes of the person you're looking to meet.

Tip #6Include a recent, realistic photograph of yourself in your profile. Avoid submitting a 'glamor shot' that may be dramatic and less than realistic. Consider showing your humorous side. Smile! Statistics show that people who include a happy photo of themselves get up to 9 times as many responses than those that don't include a photo.

Tip #7Never talk about an ex. There is no bigger turn-off than to hear about someone’s previous relationship when you're attempting to form a new one. Stay focused on where you are in your life right now; the past is best left in the past.

Tip #8Don't make snap judgments based on someone’s profile. How people express themselves in writing is seldom reflective of the type of person they are in real life. If they haven't posted a photo, ask for one. Your imagination can get you into trouble, especially if the fantasy and reality don’t mesh, when you finally meet in person.

Tip #9Be realistic and patient and don't give up when things don't work out on your first date. Be prepared to move on with a positive attitude and you will eventually make new friends and ultimately find your soul mate.