"I still love my ex boyfriend" is a phrase that may be on your heart and mind if you've just gone though an emotional break up. Right now you're probably feeling depressed and in pain. That's ok, those are normal feelings for a woman to have as they remember all the special moments and memories ... Views:479
When something goes wrong in your life, who do you blame?
“I’m in so much debt because the economy is bad and everything is so expensive. It’s not my fault”
“My mother always criticized me when I was a child. That’s why I suffer from low self esteem and make so many bad choices.”
Sadly, ... Views:343
I feel that this will be one of the most important posts that I will create about how you can get your ex girlfriend back. It is vital that you actually completed the 30 day no contact phase otherwise this information is meaningless. Knowing exactly what to say or more importantly how to say it ... Views:440
I suppose you might be wondering how long things can last without getting back together with your spouse, especially when you are hoping for reconciliation. There is no definite time frame when all hope of reconciling is cut-off, and I know this from personal experience. Some people can be apart ... Views:424
You can meet your next first date at work, bar, in friend circle or through an introduction agency in Sydney. Going out on a first date with someone you met at a bar might lead to an awful time. Friends think that they know you, but it’s not always the case. The same goes for people at work. You ... Views:227
Welcome to Shamanics in Portugal´s Journal. Our intention is to remind you our readers, friends and connections we are all part of a much larger, ever evolving community bringing balance between Father Sky and Mother Earth, and within ourselves. This was never more so than this month of ... Views:301
When it comes to dating, many men find themselves in the friendzone. You don’t want to live there. Unless you don’t want to date someone, and you truly want to be their friend, this is not ideal. It’s easy to end up here, but honestly, don’t be a girl’s handbag. It’s not fun. It may sound silly ... Views:178
Not every woman is going to play along with whatever it is you’re doing. They may be abrasive, and they may have an attitude. It’s up to you to diffuse the situation and control what is going to happen. Many men find this to be a difficult thing to deal with, but it’s not tough. You just need ... Views:183
One of the things that men do often enough is simple, they panic. They panic so often that they end up not getting a date with the person that they absolutely want to be with. They settle. You may have done this in the past, but you don’t have to. If you see someone that you want to go out with, ... Views:141
When it comes to that first date with someone, you are going to need to be on your best behavior, right? Well, yes, but you shouldn’t be so frigid that you end up miring the whole situation. If you’re going to go on a first date with someone that you really like, it’s time to brush up on some ... Views:145
Dating is fun, but settling down with someone you love? Well, there's just nothing better. Everyone encounters a twinge of fear when they contemplate spending the rest of their lives with the same person. What if one or both of you get bored? What if one of you change too much? Don't worry. ... Views:363
By Margaret Paul, PhD
November 15, 2016
What do you do when someone is trying to control you? Do you give in, argue or resist? Discover how to love yourself instead of abandoning yourself.
Loving yourselfMost of us have had the experience in our relationships of someone trying to ... Views:177
If you are going to date online you need to have a social media profile. This is a simple thing to create and something that women will no doubt look for online. You don’t have to befriend all your dates, but they should be able to search for you online. If you are going to date online, or just ... Views:166
Too often men think that being playful with women means more than what it truly is. If you get caught up in the wrong area, you could end up with a scandal on your hands, or worse. To ensure that you know how to be playful, you should take some precautions in how you are handling yourself and ... Views:153
Millions of men today have no clue as to how to talk to girls online. They try to do so, and they fail miserably. The reason why most people just can’t seem to figure this out is simple, they want things to be easy. If you are looking for an easy conversation without having to do a lot of ... Views:155
There are a lot of ways to live your life. You can be anything you want to be, but there are a few things that you have to do in order to make sure that you’re an alpha male. If you’re not really the alpha male in your circle of friends, but you want to be, you are going to need to work on ... Views:199
Are you in the process of planning an RV trip? If you are, it is important to take a close look at your traveling party. If you are a parent, will you be traveling with your children? If so, it is important that you take the proper amount of time to plan and prepare for your upcoming RV trip. ... Views:269
If you’re in an abusive relationship, you may wonder if your partner is a narcissist or sociopath and whether or not the relationship will improve. If so, or if you recently ended such a relationship, it can undermine your self-esteem and ability to trust yourself and others.
The labels ... Views:447
If one was to think about why they are a relationship with someone, they could begin to list what they like about them. This is then going to be a time when they will go over what they bring to their life.
Having them in their life is not simply going to give them someone to spend time with; ... Views:263
Self-esteem is key to success in work, and enjoyment of life and relationships. It affects our thoughts, feelings, and behavior, and how we handle life's challenges. Low self-esteem underlies addiction, anxiety, depression, abuse, intimacy problems, and codependency. Our self-esteem is usually ... Views:543
The current wisdom is that people are attracted to those who are confident in their demeanor. They know what they want and they go after it. They know with certainty who they are, what they're worth and that they are worthy. On the other hand, wisdom also holds that men are interested in the ... Views:280
Discussion about sexual matters of a patient is crucial part of preparing their medical history. Although, in India many doctors are reluctant to discuss about sex with patient’s parents. A main reason is that Indian medical centers do not provide much information about how to conduct a ... Views:265
There are not many people in suggesting sex time. Not all are lucky enough to have a satisfactory peno-vaginal activity in fact comfortably while a female is on her period. After such times, they are aroused practically, they take help of porn to have the orgasm that becomes the only way for ... Views:385
Becoming a parent can be both a very exciting and scary time. The reason it can be scary is that a new parent is now completely responsible for the health and well-being of a very fragile child. That’s a huge responsibility. Part of that responsibility includes ensuring that your home is a safe ... Views:198
The parent-tyke relationship comprises of a blend of practices, emotions, and desires that are remarkable to a specific parent and a specific kid. The relationship includes the full degree of a tyke's advancement.
Of the a wide range of connections individuals frame through the span of the life ... Views:171
When people get to the stage of seeking help for the dissatisfaction or conflict in their marriage, they often wonder “Did I marry the wrong person?” or “Did I marry right or well?” These are common thoughts many share with me that they struggle with. So, how do you know if you have? Is there ... Views:384
By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
November 07, 2016
You have a much better chance at conflict resolution when you are loving yourself rather than trying to control the other person.
One of the questions I often receive is about how to manage conflict. If you think back to the role-modeling you ... Views:223
What if Joyce dies before me? This is one of my greatest vulnerabilities.
Sure, I could die first. Statistically, women live longer than men. But this is not my vulnerability. My dying first brings up other feelings, like abandoning my true love, not being there to help her when she needs ... Views:203
In today's world, everyone is very concerned about performance, competition and perfection which leads to an insidious increase in stress. Stress causes damage that is often underestimated, and it is a social phenomenon that should be closely examined and evaluated. In today's modern, fast-paced ... Views:339
How do I know if I am acting codependent or loving? This is an excellent question and often confusing for many for different reasons. Let’s look at the definitions of codependent and loving and see what we find.
Love: An intense feeling of deep affection. For the purpose of this article, we ... Views:403
Falling in love with someone is way easier than committing your life to her. It is the next stage of your life where you are ready to invest in spending your everything as 50/50 with her. Are you someone who’s ready to do the same? It is an exciting feeling when you know the what step you are ... Views:225
This question fascinates me because I have observed over many years many journeys where people struggle with this task (myself included.) Let’s take a look at some of my speculations and see what your thoughts might be on why this is so challenging.
Our History and Teachings
For women, it is ... Views:266
Some women have this "thing" that attracts all the men in a 20-square foot vicinity. Most women can't identify what that is, but most men will be able to identify it and will hone in like bees to a hive. Women might think she's beautiful, has a great body, dresses well or knows how to flirt. But ... Views:334
When something works, there is generally going to be no reason for someone to take a closer look at it. One example of this is that when one has a car that works, they won’t need to take a look under the bonnet, for instance.
Yet, this would change if their car was to no longer run as it ... Views:348
When someone’s relationship comes to an end, they can have to the need to carry on with their life. There is then going to be no reason for them to spend time talking about the person they were with.
If this is because it ended badly, it will be normal for them to want to put ... Views:298
Remember when. . .
The scent of your partner’s skin put a flare in your nostrils as you drank in their essence;
You couldn’t keep your hands off each other. Love making could happen anytime and anywhere;
There was an underlying passion to everything you did with each other;
The smallest ... Views:418
As I grew up, I was very open-minded when it came to matters involving sexuality. I was also very conscious of my spirituality and the sense that someone or something bigger than I was involved in my life. The two most intimate aspects of my identity, however, operated totally separate from each ... Views:314
Marriage is the most important decision in a person's life, and a host of factors are at the back of a person's mind when he is planning to get married. Some of these are finding joy in the relationship, finding blessings from elders and love from those younger, and discovering a relationship ... Views:389
Women looking for couples is one of the best dating site for bi available for bisexual women today. This site is offering people with sufficient services. Some of the services these site is successfully offering are:
Connecting bisexual women
Since time immemorial it has not been easy for ... Views:204
When I was in Grade 4, I struggled with an ability to read, especially when asked to read in front of the class. I wasn’t dyslexic but I was quite shy, and not at all confident about my intellectual abilities relative to my peers.
Unfortunately, I had a teacher who, I discovered many years ... Views:268
Busy parents sometimes don’t communicate well with each other because they’re - well, busy. They’re preoccupied with their work, children and all of the responsibilities that go along with them. Sometimes as a result of this juggling act, mom and dad lose a wee bit of the warm and loving ... Views:209
Diwali is almost here, everyone’s out shopping for gifts, maybe even wondering about the perfect gift for their loved ones.
People often end up spending a lot of time shopping for Diwali gifts. Sometimes they may have something specific that they would like to buy for their loved ones, and at ... Views:251
Are you sick and tired of your spouse’s behaviour?
Do you have no more to give?
Are you at the end of your tether?
Do you think an ultimatum is your only way out?
We hear people giving ultimatums every day. “If you don’t stop doing X then Y will be the consequence.” However, more often than ... Views:285
Sale of adult play toys is something which is otherwise seen as a taboo, and even an idea which does not find widespread acceptance amongst people. Nevertheless, one might over time find out that most people just see these as sexual wellness products, and something which they would not associate ... Views:271
People from India are opening up in their attitude towards adult play toys and a majority of the audience cross section is pretty much comfortable regarding the sale and use of the same.
Quite a few stores have mushroomed and sell adult play toys, mostly plastic, some silicon.
Makes one ... Views:343
By Margaret Paul, PhD
October 31, 2016
Do you have major challenges in emotionally connecting with your family of origin? You are not alone!
Are you happy with your family of origin? Can you emotionally connect with your family? If you can, you are fortunate indeed. Many people feel ... Views:183
While someone can be in a position where they always find people to criticise, this might only take place from time to time. When it comes to what they can relate to, it could all depend on what mood they are in.
As a result of this, the people around them might prefer to keep their distance ... Views:252
Sometimes referred to as over-protective, demanding, motherly, smothering or stalker - these are the emotional ties that choke a relationship and do NOT create strong bonds. Each of these characteristics can be plotted on a line from demanding through stalking, with each taking its own place on ... Views:280
For National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I invite you to join me in celebrating the courageous women who have experienced abuse and their strength to move forward.
What can we do?
1. Show understanding, empathy, and support for anyone that may be experience abuse. Learn the ... Views:269
Divorce is hard on everyone, particularly on kids. Many parents struggle with their marriages for years before deciding that divorce is the best option for everyone. When this decision is made, it then falls to the parents to let their kids know what be happening.
Unfortunately, well-meaning ... Views:340