Commitment and Love are marriage builders.
Main marriage builders are commitment and love.
They always go together. They are two sides of a coin, different but one. They are like inseparable twins; a pair of wings that becomes useless when one is gone. Without commitment, love could not keep marriage longer. Without love, commitment could not make marriage happier.
Commitment and love are marriage builders because they make lasting and happier marriage.
-Well, happy lovers and unmarried partners casually separate because of the absence or lack of commitment in their relationship.
-Arranged married couples, on the other hand, last decades but are not happy because of the absence or lack of love.
As married couples, you should live around these two main marriage builders.
These two main marriage builders are interdependent. The sense of commitment makes love more inspiring. Love makes commitment more enduring. If you do not love your spouse, you would less likely commit in your married life. If you do not commit, you would less likely love your spouse.
Love is indeed the greatest of all. It is however not the most permanent emotion without commitment.
I disagree with The Beatles’ song love is all we need. We also need commitment. While love represents our heart, commitment signifies our will and action.
Love alone is not enough, as most unhappy married couples say. We have to act our love. As the euphoric love, often during honeymoon stage, dives down, commitment keeps it at the top or brings it back to the top. When commitment loses its endurance, love pumps it back to life.
Love is not at all we need. Commitment is neither enough. They always should go together, not only in marriage, but also in any relationship.
So, remember your vow. Love and commit to your spouse. It will certainly keep your marriage.
“Keep your ring and be Always
Happily Married! It is not only easier; it is what you pledged to and
be celebrated” -
Norman Csarni - Founder of Build My Marriage
http://www.buildmymarriage.com
Norman Csarni grew up in Hungary, a communist dominated country. He was 25 years old when he came to the U.S. in 2000, and like many of his predecessors before him, he was in pursuit of the “American dream”. As he passed by the Statue of Liberty, the tears welled up in his eyes as his mind filled with hope for a better life for him and his bride, Victoria.
Norman and Victoria struggled through many hardships as newlyweds in a strange country, but through these difficulties they forged a healthy and happy marriage. Norman may not have a string of degrees to impress you with, but by working through his own marital difficulties and experiences, he wholeheartedly wants to help others keep their marriage alive. He created this website as his personal mission to improve the national “Successful Marriage” ratio.
Successful marriages require not only skill but a lot of hard work. Norman has done an extraordinary amount of research into the field of marriage as well as using his own experiences to provide you with helpful tips, funny videos, rate yourself tests and blogging capabilities on this website.
Norman and Victoria have been happily married 10 years and have two lovely children. They want to help you do the same.