Still Head Over Heels in Love? 5 Strategies to Win Ex Back In No Time

Are you trying all the strategies you've heard of or read about on how to win ex back and nothing seems to be working?

You've tried begging, had swallowed your pride and apologized a hundred times. You've even gone as far as stalk him just to find out if he's back in the dating scene already. Of course none of these will work! You'll never even be close to win ex back with the techniques you're using? Why? Because they just make you look desperate, selfish and maybe downright crazy to your ex.

The ones who succeeded to win ex back will tell you that a woman who looks too desperate raises some red flags in a man's mind. What you would be better off doing is to use some unexpected strategies to win ex back.

1. So if you keep showing up in the bar where he hangs around with his friends, that really shows him that you're not cool about the breakup and he will either feel guilty or pity for you. Worse, he may feel stronger and more negative emotions like disgust and anger, every time you try and connect with him, either by being in places he frequents, by calling him or sending him text messages.

If you accidentally bump into him in a bar, just say hello to him, but do not even go to his table and ask to be invited for drinks. Not only will you make him and his friends uncomfortable, he may even be worried that you'll embarrass him in front of his friends (or date). Instead, you can offer to just leave the room so that it will no longer be awkward for everyone.

2. If you ever feel the desire to talk to him on the phone, you can do that maybe about a week or two after the breakup. Make it brief though and try not to be emotional about it. Let him know you're thinking about him and that you're ready to look at him in a different light - as a good friend.

Keep your cool and you'll leave him wondering if you really are moving on, or if there's a new man in your life.

3. You can also send him a casual hello by email. Don't overdo it, though, just enough to get him curious on what's happening in your life lately, now that he's no longer in it.

He'll be intrigued every time he sees you or hears from you. He'll soon remember how good the times you spent together were. He'll start wondering if you really are good even without him. For all you know, he might start to feel miserable thinking you are handling the separation quite well.

Give it a few more time and you'll easily win your ex back.