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We often lump women together into one group; as if they were all cut from the same cloth. While to a certain extent, it is possible that feminine instincts are uniform across demographic boundaries: the desire for resources, the desire for friendship or belonging to a group with focus, the ... Views:2637
Many men I know are unhappy and are completely lost. It sounds dramatic, but many men feel like they’re living in a plagued society burdened with disease. Infected and looking to the heavens, they need answers to prayers that aren’t heard. Most men are not even sure why they feel the way they ... Views:3984
As the Heart Protector of Women I have come to the realization that when a woman feels connected with a man she is dating, she can sometimes end up in a quandary of emotions regarding future expectations. Females are still encouraged today from a young age to allow the male to pursue them, but ... Views:1929
Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? PART II
In Part I we talked about three key elements for women to consider when dating a divorced man.
As the Heart Protector of Women, let me remind you that before allowing him to participate in any “undercover operations”, you must ... Views:2042
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It’s Over and I Have Nothing Else to Say! – When there is No Closure
-Author Aleasa M. Word
As a woman, I continually try to ... Views:2326
Recently, I came across some stunning actual scientific findings from evolutionary psychology regarding a man’s ability to attract and date quality women who are right for them. After all, men worldwide want to find what works for them to become more accomplished in this area; to actually have ... Views:4128
You enter a bar; you see lots of attractive women around you, but you just… kind of freeze. What seems weird, because just yesterday you were at the same bar and felt no anxiety at all.
But today, you feel nothing, you just keep staring at your glass of beer, and have no idea how you managed ... Views:4343
If you choose to take on this mission, you must know before entering the territory that the terrain can be a very challenging. The agents of change will manifest in the dark and the baggage has not necessarily been left at the terminal. You will encounter emotional assaults from Agent “Ex” ... Views:3472
I would grab women's attention usually with my height and the wide and varied things I've done with my life, even at a young age. They would let me know indirectly - moving differently than for other men in the vicinity, trying to label me, whether it was as a nice guy, a player, a charmer, a ... Views:2538
There's never a good time for it, never a right time or place, and it usually doesn't feel right at all. For some men, breaking up seems to be easy to do, but if we get honest with ourselves, those guys are few and far between. Sometimes those men don't realize that the relationship really ... Views:3520
There are many dynamics to a relationship and I think most of us can agree that we rarely see everything going on under the surface, yet we feel the discomfort. As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind I would like to reveal three elements that can cause relational distress and ... Views:1992
Results from Creative Conflict Resolutions’ Passive Aggressive Test shows that 80% men prefer to “clam up” and hide their true thoughts from their wives.
Is this you?
A very common way of describing “clamming up” is to say that it is self-protection, and as the husband, you see it as a ... Views:3608
A Deeper Look at the Exaggerated Superiority Personality and Awareness of Self.
Good ole’ USA Today; they even make the sports page interesting. Last week in a wire service report, there was a short article about both Tiger Woods and Vijay Singh. Only five paragraphs about Tiger Woods. ... Views:2649
Did your girlfriend recently tell you she was questioning her feelings for you? Perhaps, she told she isn't in love with you anymore. Either way, I know that right now you're feeling hurt and confused. If you are experiencing the heartache of a potential breakup, please check out some frequent ... Views:13700
Has your girl friend ever said this: “What does it take to get him to change” ? Or have you received advice from a friend saying: “You just need to train him how you want him to be”? As a Relationship Coach and the Heart Protector of Women I want to tackle the topic of trying to change ... Views:2293
Women have probably heard this phrase many times in their lives: “If you really love me, you’d....” fill in the blank. Most of the time those comments are referring to the guy wanting her to prove her love by having sex with him, but today I want to hit on THREE ways women can put out that will ... Views:3341
This is without doubt amongst the top marriage counseling questions. The natural course of a marriage is rarely a smooth one. Under the pressure of daily life, we often take marriage and our spouse for granted. But the truth is that for a marriage to be healthy and happy, we need to keep working ... Views:1886
Whether it is online dating or the more traditional methods, finding someone who is just as interested in you is only half the battle. The problems most Men (and Women) face is when it comes time to actually engage with this person for the first time.
Knowing how best to approach women is ... Views:1269
The evening was planned a week ago. Romantic dinner, tickets to see your favorite band in concert, just a night of fun with the man you love. But in what seemed a moment of time everything changed. Oh, you still had the dinner and tickets, but what you didn’t see coming was the temperature ... Views:5075
The narcissist presents to the world a facade of invincibility, equanimity, superiority, skilfulness, cool-headedness, invulnerability, and, in short: indifference.
This front is penetrated in times of great crises that threaten the narcissist's ability to obtain Narcissistic Supply, or when ... Views:5881
Life is hard enough without going through a difficult break up.
Losing someone important can be one of the hardest things to deal with. It only gets worse if you find that your ex is dating someone else. If you are in this situation then following may be the answers you are looking for.
Q: ... Views:13067
Men are visual creatures, while looks will get you in the door, in the long run it is emotional attraction that will keep him glued to you.
What is emotional attraction to a man? It is everything in a woman that makes him feel supported, accepted and respected because all of that is the ... Views:19955
If you think men just want to lead a bachelor life without any concern in the world while having you on the side because it's convenient to him, you are mistaken. Do realize that both men and women want to love and be loved. Both genders want a great relationship as it is our inherent need. ... Views:15069
Being a relationship coach and dealing with breakup issues a good chunk of time, I have a lot of anxious female clients/readers who are on the brink of a nervous breakdown because they feel their world is falling apart: i.e. their men seem to fade into the state of indifference. They panic and ... Views:11639
It sure is great to be a guy in this day in age, isn’t it? It is not uncommon for men to hold multiple relationships with women in various places, while they decide which one they want to be with. It’s almost like a reality show when you think about it. Yet, when women do the same thing they ... Views:1200
As a Relationship Confidant, I frequently get asked questions that could be issues of concern for many re-entering the dating scene. One gal was distraught over the lack of appreciation she felt from her man due to his memory loss when it came to special anniversary dates. She also felt he ... Views:7268
You remember the scene, yellow daisy in hand, the girl is picking petals off one at a time reciting “He loves me, He loves me not, He loves me...” and hoping for the luck of the draw. Relationships can feel like this wondering if he really does love you at all. How will you know for sure?
As ... Views:2041
Hello ladies - today we're talking about what to expect in love and dating. Expectations can be a useful meter to test a particular guy against what you feel you deserve. The obvious problem though is setting these expectations too high and demanding more from a potential relationship than is ... Views:2141
OK, guys, YOU ALL KNOW that being a nerd isn’t really a turn on. Chicks don’t dig nerds. Well, at least not until they get rich. But until then, these guys will spend MANY HOURS trying to figure out: “How to make a girl like you?”.
There are a lot of nerds out there. Many of you guys are ... Views:2571
A bit fore thought as to what will take place when you meet somebody actually unique is usually a beneficial idea too. Do you want to get married? How will you pay for her to come over towards the U.S., or will you go to her? Can you get the time off of function, what paperwork do you will need, ... Views:4495
When you sign up you can need to be willing to invest upwards of 1 hour filling out your profile. It may possibly get just a little tedious, but bear in mind, the much more complete you make it the better your chances of obtaining a great deal of excellent matches.
As soon as you have ... Views:948
This may seem self-explanatory, but as we all know not everything is as easy as it looks. Courting a woman is a process; there is no doubt about it. Time and effort and required to successfully gain the admiration and/or love of any young lady. The common problem that men run into, while ... Views:9223
Has seduction become a lost art? In a society of strong women with powerful careers and tight schedules it may have lost it's place of importance. Being aggressive is not necessarily considered sexy by the man on the other end of the couch. Alluring him with hints of desire can whet his ... Views:2036
In the fall of 1990, I was meeting with two other men on a regular basis to explore our dreams and aspirations. Every two weeks, we would gather at a Chinese buffet and talk for several hours about things we’d like to do some day. It was around the time of the Men’s Movement, where men went ... Views:1476
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize that men are attracted to gorgeous women, but it does get complicated for women to understand what keeps men interested. As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind women are always asking me what men are looking for in a woman. They want to know what he needs ... Views:2527
“I’m just trying to be a father, raise a daughter and a son, be a lover to their mother, everything to everyone…yeah, I’m real good under pressure being all that I can be…I just work straight through the holidays, and sometimes all night long…’cause freedom don’t come free.. I’m an American, an ... Views:2100
Maybe you’ve tried every strategy that you can think of to lure your ex boyfriend back into your arms and back into your life but it just doesn’t seem to be working. You have tried playing hard to get; you’ve tried obsessing over what he’s doing and calling every hour; you’ve showed up ... Views:16046
One thing I'd like to point out is that women have an amazing sense of intuition. Often times, it can be accurate enough to the point where it seems like they can READ your mind. This is especially true when it comes to figuring out what you're feeling and how you feel about yourself.
I ... Views:1128
Text messaging is one of the most powerful ways to flirt and build attraction and to lay a great foundation for a lasting relationship with a man.
Unfortunately, many women are at a loss for how to properly leverage this technology to make a man feel intense level of attraction toward her ... Views:38163
Frequently I receive emails from women that desire a romantic relationship yet never go anywhere or do anything that would help facilitate meeting good men.
Landing a partner for life does not usually happen at the grocery store, nail salon or single moms club. Even if you go register with ... Views:1778
Men are biologically different to women, and yet so many women seem to have no idea why their partners act the way they do. The very biological differences that draw so many people together are also sometimes the very things that can drive them apart.
Biologically, men have almost the ... Views:14252
As a Relationship Confidant, women come to me frequently with this same perplexing question: What does it all mean when the man in my life is distancing himself from me? As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind let me help clarify this male phenomenon. Women as we know tend to be extremely relational ... Views:21280
Text messaging is one of the most powerful ways to flirt and build attraction and to lay a great foundation for a lasting relationship with a man.
Unfortunately, many women are at a loss for how to properly leverage this technology to make a man feel intense level of attraction toward her ... Views:18516
Some women get really hurt from just a few month fling? Why? Because they invest too much, too soon in the relationship and have soaring expectations of it. They buy into the fairy tale they concoct themselves that this is it: he's the One and they're "in love" not realizing that the dizzying ... Views:18179
Why is it so hard for some of us to say that we are sorry even when we know that our actions were wrong? If you don’t know this, allow me to educate you on a fact of life. We are all human so there is not a person in this world who has never made a mistake. We are all capable of making mistakes ... Views:1515
Question: I have noticed throughout my life that the girls I was attracted to tended not to like me back. This has been especially problematic now that I am in my 20's, but it did occur a bit in my teens as well. I am starting to think that I will never get the women I'm interested in, or that I ... Views:8663
Inspired by having coffee at the beach with my beloved’s sister today I felt urged to share my thoughts on where I feel “we are at” in life, the Universe, the here and now, or whatever you choose to call it, in terms of our relationships. This mini blog is an instigator and prodder of inner and ... Views:956
Another week brings us another celebrity couple's split to ponder.
This week, it's the announced breakup between George Clooney and the impossibly hot, Italian model-actress-broadcaster and now ex-girlfriend, Elisabetta Canalis.
Elisabetta Canalis certainly is marriage material for at ... Views:1106
When a man asks the question, “Is this all there is?”, somewhere between 35 and 55, they often go into what is referred to as Midlife Crisis. It is a serious time in their lives because it is the peak time (other than during the teen years) when they are most likely to commit suicide, to ruin ... Views:1343
The amount of time we get to spend with our partners is less and less. Commutes are longer, people often spend eight or ten hours at the computer and in meetings. Our increasingly complex lives also come with a host of professional, personal, and hobby-related commitments. As a result, the ... Views:10912