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Right now, you don't understand how it's even possible to forgive cheating...Is every man who's ever repaired his marriage after an affair really just jading over their feelings of jealousy and betrayal?
Or do you believe that full forgiveness really is possible? That you and your wife can ... Views:12825
Most often people are tougher on themselves than on anyone else. During my Conversations with Charmaine radio show I had with Marilyn Suttle and Shawne Duperon they both asked the question “how long before you forgive yourself?”
That's a great question! As a consultant and trainer in ... Views:1593
A research was carried out on the level of breakups around the world after which it was proven that more than 65% of relationships end in breakups. If you decided to carry out another research, you will discover that the majority of these people who broke up was not because they did not love ... Views:6492
Forgiveness is another tool or jewel for self discovery to assist us on our spiritual journey to enlightenment.
The Oxford English dictionary defines forgiveness as such: “to grant free pardon and to give up all claim on account of an offense or debt.”
Forgiveness is also about letting go ... Views:1196
Did you know that divorce rates are the highest that they have ever been in America? Don't feel like you're alone – you're far from the only abandoned husband who wants to learn how to get your wife back.
The percentage of married couples that get divorced has been steadily increasing for the ... Views:22065
If you are like most men, then when your wife told you that she wanted to leave, it left you with one feeling above all:
Fear.
And yeah, sure, maybe a little bit of anger to… But I'm willing to bet that if you really stop for a second – take a deep breath – to examine yourself (at your own ... Views:1979
At the homeless shelter where I volunteer, there is a strong emphasis on forgiveness and personal accountability. The residents must learn to recite, by memory, several recovery principles. One of the principles is called “Restitution” and it reads as follows: “A forgiving heart is necessary ... Views:1298
It happened one bitterly cold night in January 2011. It was sudden and violent. It took our family by surprise as most tragedies do. We all vacillated between denial and shock. I cried out in anger and in sadness. I begged God to give me back those few minutes before it happened. I would ... Views:2383
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Often, the same quirks, reactions and behaviors that create problems between you and the female members of your famiy wouldn't be a problem if they was someone else's family. If your best friend's mom or ... Views:1709
Would you like to surprise that significant somebody? Is it somebody's birthday? Would you like to send a "just because" message to somebody? Well then you need to look into using flowers delivered service. A flowers delivered service always saves the day with those last minute momentous day ... Views:1010
Did you ever hear the old phrase "What you don't know can't hurt you"? Well, it can. In fact, family secrets can destroy your life in more ways than one.
There is usually one person who is the "keeper of the secrets". That person is privileged to all the things that are unsavory about the ... Views:1278
Losing someone is always a very bad experience. At the end it leaves stress and pain for you. If someone has lost her love then it doesn’t mean that there are not chances to get him back. It may be possible if you really want to do that. In this article, we will discuss relationship advice, ... Views:942
In my clinical experience, I've encountered many clients who are afraid to admit they’re wrong. This comes from a culture of blaming and accusing—where one's early family may have picked a “culprit” when something went wrong, and focused on blame, rather than on fixing the problem and healing ... Views:1867
Do you find yourself remembering how great it used to be? Perhaps it’s the memory of a loved one, or the hurtful memory attached to betrayal from someone you trusted. The pain won’t seem to lessen over time. What do you do with this emotional burden? How do you release this crippling memory that ... Views:1721
I have a true story for you. My stories are always based on what I experienced. Very recently a mother came to me with her daughter, she said to me, “Tell my daughter the story of the garden.” This greatly surprised me because I had not thought of that story for a long time, and most of a ... Views:1939
Two simple words, “I’m Sorry” are so hard for some to say. Some say those words and never mean them. Some people wait for many years to hear those words and expect a closure that never comes. So why is it that the simplest of words in the English language, or any language for that matter, ... Views:1905
Anger is the emotional energy within each of us that rises up when something needs to change.
If you act on the need to create change, your anger can be channeled effectively; but it’s not redirected to something effective, your frustration will build, sometimes to hurricane force.
Anger ... Views:1691
All relationships have their ups and downs, and there are always times that things will seem very bleak.
But somehow, at least so far, you've always managed to get her back. But now you're afraid that this time will be different, that somehow your relationship is so damaged that there is a ... Views:12315
Forgiving someone when they have said or done something to hurt you isn’t always easy. In fact, for the most part you would probably rather do just about anything than forgive someone that has caused you pain. People go through life carrying grudges and never understanding the impact it’s ... Views:1107
If you are thinking about forgiving someone, be encouraged because it is the first step in healing your pain. At the same time, do not be discouraged if your offender rejects your attempts to reconcile and forgive. Unwelcoming responses may be a harsh reality.
My brother is in his 40’s and ... Views:905
Why is it so hard to forgive someone? Why does forgiveness hurt so much and seem impossible sometimes? Forgiveness is hard and seems impossible when you try to do it your way and expect situations to mend in your time.
When I think back to a time when I was so upset I found it difficult to ... Views:880
Anger - it's a dirty word, isn't it? After all, if you've got too much, you may have to participate in "Anger Management." Being described as "angry" implies something deep, dark and heavy going on inside. When it's used to describe someone, it's NOT a compliment.
Ralph Waldo Emerson said, ... Views:1201
Buy Her Some Roses
Doing so may seem so cliche, but nobody does things like this anymore. Its not essentially the flowers, but the romantic symbolism behind the flowers. Ladies want to get swept up in romance . If you know her preferred type of flowers, then you could get those instead. ... Views:1034
A dream of relationships imaging co-creating from the pure “seed” of love. Surrounded and supported through hopes and dreams working through the imagination to allow the Space of love, from the pure intent of all that Love is and what Love is to teach you. You see you create to see, feel and ... Views:1309
Break ups are no fun no matter the case. Regardless of the reason or how long the relationship lasted, the time immediately following the breakup can be tough. If you were not prepared to breakup, it could be even worse.I realize where you are coming from and I’m here to tell you that there is ... Views:2203
Most people know when they are feeling jealous, but often they struggle with admitting it, as well as knowing how to tame ”the green-eyed monster”.
Envy really is quite a common feeling. I don’t think there are too many people that can honestly say they haven’t felt the pangs of it at one ... Views:1457
Fear & Reality
Dialogue on Fear and Reality
Submitted by George on Monday, 02/06/2012
This is a powerful mental construct that prevents us from being creative, happy and successful.
The world as it appears to us now, is largely, a reflection of the "egoic mind " with fear being the ... Views:2014
We’ve all heard it said that you can’t love anyone else until you love yourself. And although we know there’s truth to this old adage, most of us persist in looking for love outside of ourselves, often in all the wrong places.
In one of my emotional eating groups this week, we discussed the ... Views:2711
Entering into a relationship would mean that you are committing yourself to the other person and that you promise to remain faithful to your partner at all times. However, there are times that we would fail to commit and ended up betraying our partner which would cause the relationship to be ... Views:900
Get Connected!
When I talked about getting connected, I am coming from a place of higher spirituality, not religion. I respect and honor all religions and believe that the core message is the same for most of them, they just have different ways of expressing it that will resonate with some ... Views:1163
My birthday is 4 days before Christmas, on December 21st. It is the winter solstice, the shortest day of the year. And, due to the fact that it is so close to the holidays, my birthday has often been disappointing because the recognition and celebration of it gets lost in the overwhelming ... Views:4038
God is a verb. God simply “IS”. God is the "Great I AM". When Moses asked God on Mt. Sinai, whom shall I say sent me, God said; “I AM THAT I AM”. Tell them that “I AM” hath sent thee. “I AM” refers to the verb to “BE”. And the essence of the verb to be is - “IS”. God simply “IS” God is a verb, ... Views:2226
Ever wondered what it'd be like to get back with your ex? The thought of it crosses everyone's mind at least once. But if you're absolutely certain they are the one you're destined to be with, then you can learn effective ways to get back with your ex without screwing things up and looking ... Views:941
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A Twice Born Book
The Little Red Book* was the original book for doing the 12 Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. It was endorsed by Dr Bob as a companion to The Big Red Book, better known today as The Big Book which was written by Bill W. The little Red Book is a, simple ... Views:2628
I always thought that forgiveness was solely on an individual basis and never really comprehended the full meaning of it all. Forgiveness comes in layers and with each layer you have to dig deep within yourself and re-live each circumstance. Each layer may take you back a few years while ... Views:1516
Has your spouse acted in a way, or done something, that has left you extremely upset and has resulted in a marriage in crisis? It can be hard to overcome issues that blindside you and hurt you to the very core. Many people just like you are wondering whether or not their marriage can be saved or ... Views:1661
Undeserved Forgiveness.
Wow, those 2 words together are powerful! I believe that God grants us undeserved forgiveness and that, in turn, we are meant to allow the same for others. Actually doing it .…..well that’s the hard part. As a Christian, I know and believe that it’s possible to ... Views:1347
“It's important to talk about it. You raise awareness. But you can also prevent it (child abuse) by not letting it be a secret.”~Chris Witty
I am always amazed at the number of victims of sexual abuse that I encounter in my private sessions. Not one day of sessions goes by that does not ... Views:1894
Usually after a terrible event in our lives, we tend to blame everybody else, or even God, or the Universe. I did this too, mainly after relationship break-ups. I knew that this was not the right thing to do, but still, I had all this anger against the unfairness of the situation.
This is so ... Views:1131
What is you climb? Are you facing challenge in your life today? The climb is the most difficult part of the walk we face in our everyday life.
It’s where our realities are faced. It’s where we wonder whether or not we are able to complete all of the task in life we face. We all have a ... Views:1281
When conflict with your partner escalates to anger, name calling, slamming doors and irreparable damage it may be time to take a closer look at what is really going on. I get asked frequently how to fight fair without saying hurtful things that can not be taken back. Most likely something is ... Views:1115
Joy is love and happiness put together. But what can joy do for you? It can truly transform your life! We are facing times now that doing things we simply do not like is not going to be sustainable. I think that is a big reason as to why so many people are facing big career challenges with being ... Views:1147
We have all been lied to, cheated, tricked and hurt. Sometimes it is just the common result of business, other times it is incompetence or a lack of accepting responsibility, but most of the time it is someone who is either a stranger or at least not very close to you, and this can upset you but ... Views:2602
Our society does not accept emotions. We are expected to move through life like robots, go to work function whether we have anything of an emotional nature going on in our lives or not.
My son and daughter-in-law just lost their first baby over the weekend. We all had such great hope for ... Views:3707
How do you know if you are on the right path, what if it seems right but you can’t be sure?
Unlocking many past lives and their strong emotional attachments has opened the door to understanding my authentic self and how I came to be. Forgiving, heart and soul is the key, clues of synchronicity ... Views:1611
Since your breakup, are you calling everyone you know and recounting the story over and over and over about how he did that or he said this or can you believe what he’s up to now? Let me ask you another question then: What about YOU?
You see, I fell into that trap too. HE was awful. HE ... Views:1690
Divorce. Whoever thought it would be happening to you? To most people, there was no way that this was happening to them. What ever happened to till death do us part?
Tame the Pain of Divorce
There are many ways to cope with the pain of divorce - no one way works for everyone. Luckily, ... Views:1626
Article Title: A 'Review' of the New Film: "CATCH A FIRE" and Sharing a few Thoughts on Forgiveness
(written by Shawn Slovo and her producer sister, Robyn)
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Submitted and shared by Craig Lock
Web site: http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B005GGMAW4
The submitter’s blogs (with extracts from ... Views:1916
Perhaps all of us have had an intimate partner that has said or done things to us which frankly seem unforgivable! Can you remember a circumstance where you spoke hurtful or hateful words, and later recognized that you did not really mean them? The context of your life affected the content of ... Views:1565
It looks like I may sell this house. While I’m very excited about being able to literally move on after my divorce 1 ½ years ago, this house holds so many memories. Good and bad ones. I like to focus on the good ones. My daughter brought a song to my attention last year that says so much. It’s ... Views:1678