Barbara is a writer, public speaker, certified life coach and Medical Esthetician. Through her work the author has met dozens of divorced women who torture themselves with a life of regrets. The author shares her own personal journey through divorce, financial loss and despair, then provides examples to encourage women to let go of all inner conflict and replace it with peace and joy. Through her book, "You Lost Your Marriage Not Your Life," Barbara teaches how to release all self-defeating inner dialog that compromises your life and keeps you paralyzed with fear. Barbara teaches that when healing comes to our thoughts, it comes to our life.