Dr. Zandra Steinberg is also known as "Aunt Sugar" by her followers. She is an expert in family relationships and believes that the lack of trust within the family is contributing to the breakdown of the family today. Dr. Steinberg works with family members to create trust within the family and to center home life in the everyday world. Secrets and lies can destroy a family from the inside out. Dr. Steinberg believes that there are no good lies and likes to say that a "secret is only a secret when known by two people; one of whom is dead". Secrets always rise to the top; they never stay hidden and when they do surface they usually cause irreparable harm. Secrets and lies destroy more than just the people who tell/hide them.
Dr. Steinberg has come to her knowledge through schooling as well as practical knowledge. Growing up in the South in the 50's and 60's she experienced daily the secrets and lies that a family will tell and perpetuate to make things seem alright within a family. Her concentration in discovering the truth and removing toxic people from a person's life is exclusively "Aunt Sugar."
out help. I also believe that removing toxic people from your life will releave stress and allow you to be a more healthy person both mentally and physically.Removal of toxic people will allow a person to be healthier mentally and physically.
Aunt Sugar says:
"I know from experience that hate and dissatisfaction with your life will destroy you. You have to let other people's opinions of you go. Remember that the only person you are responsible to is yourself (on earth) and your God (after death). Hatred is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die."
Hatred and bad feelings toward someone are a bit like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die. You are the only one who gets hurt.