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If a woman is in a relationship, it might not be long before it comes to an end. Now, this might not be because she is with a man who is not right for her or is treating her badly; no, it can be because of what her father thinks of the man that she is with.
So, when she is with her father, he ... Views:1
If a man is in a position where he acts like an extension of his mother, it is going to be normal for him to neglect himself. So, to say that he will live a life that is not very fulfilling will be an understatement.
Naturally, for this to change, he will need to be less focused on his ... Views:1
If someone is in a relationship, they might have recently shared their body with another or had an affair. Now, this might not be the first time that this has taken place.
Not too long ago, they might have behaved in the same way. However, even if this is the first time that this has taken ... Views:1
Although someone has an emotional self, in addition to a mental self, it doesn’t mean that they will realise this. The reason for this is that they could typically be out of touch with how they feel.
What this is likely to mean is that they will spend most of their life in their head and be ... Views:1
Recently, someone may have found out that their partner has cheated on them. Then again, they might have found out that this has taken place more than once, and that this has been going on for a little while.
Either way, thanks to what has happened, they can be in a bad way, both mentally and ... Views:1
Even though someone is an interdependent human being, they could typically act as though they are independent. They are then going to have a number of needs, but, in general, they will create the impression that they don’t.
Apart from their basic needs then, such as their need to eat and ... Views:1
If a man’s life revolves around his mother, he is going to be more like an extension of her as opposed to an autonomous human being who has his own life to lead. But, although he will be neglecting himself, he might not be consciously aware of this.
Assuming that this is the case, there will ... Views:1
If someone were to step back and reflect on how they experience life, what might enter their mind is that they have a number of fears. Due to this, it is likely to make it difficult for them to embrace life.
In general, they could live in a way that causes them to be on the outside and unable ... Views:1
Even though someone acts as though they are merely an extension of their family, it doesn’t mean that they will be consciously aware of this. The reason for this is that this can just be what is normal.
As a result of this, their main focus will be on doing what they can to please the people ... Views:1
If someone is feeling low and is even depressed, they might believe that they need a goal to work toward. Then again, they could talk to a trusted friend or family member about how they feel, and this is what they could be told.
Assuming that the latter takes place, this can be seen as a way ... Views:1
Right now, a man could be dating a woman who rarely has time for him, and when she is around, she could typically be somewhere else mentally and emotionally. This might have been going on for a few weeks or months.
Either way, thanks to what is going on, he is likely to spend a lot of time ... Views:1
Right now, a woman might be with a man who is emotionally unavailable and is often physically out of reach. If so, when she is with him, she won’t be able to connect to him emotionally, and she will rarely, if ever, see him.
The reason for this is that he can be focused on his mother’s needs ... Views:9
What someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on their life, is that they continually end up with people who are emotionally unavailable. As a result of this, they are going to be used to being deprived in this area of their life.
Additionally, they may have had a very similar ... Views:9
If someone were to step back and reflect on their life, what they might find is that it’s as though they live in a desert. The reason for this is that they could seldom, if ever, receive what they need.
So, they might generally be able to meet the needs that allow them to survive, but that ... Views:10
Right now, a man could spend time with a woman who is with a man who is mistreating her. When they get together, they may or may not get affectionate and have sex, but he can spend a lot of time listening to her and being supportive.
He can often tell her that she doesn’t deserve to be ... Views:9
What can be normal is for someone to focus on other people’s needs and ignore their own. This is something that can take place without them consciously choosing to behave in this way.
Apart from meeting their basic needs, then, they will have the tendency to overlook their other needs. And ... Views:9
Recently, someone may have experienced a loss, and since then, they might not have been in a good way. If this is the case, they are going to be in a position where they find it hard to function.
Now, they might have experienced a breakup or lost a loved one. Either way, they can find it hard ... Views:9
If someone feels the call to have therapy, it can be due to a variety of different reasons. So, they could suffer from anxiety and/or depression, struggle to feel good about themselves, and/or they could have relational challenges.
Either way, after they have found a therapist who is right ... Views:9
If someone were to step back and reflect on how they experience life, what they might find is that they don’t have a strong sense of self. So, instead of feeling like a strong and capable adult who can direct their life, they can feel like a weak and incapable child who needs others to direct ... Views:10
Even though someone will have the need to be seen and heard, this need might rarely, if ever, be met. The reason for this is that they could do what they can to stay in the background.
So, when they are at work, with friends and even with family, they could prefer to let other people talk and ... Views:10
What someone could see is that no matter what they do or achieve, they don’t feel worthy or deserving of having their needs met. Instead, they can have the sense that they are worthless and undeserving.
Now, if they were to reach out to a friend and talk about what is going on for them, they ... Views:9
What someone can see, if they were to step back and reflect on how they behave, is that they typically act as though they are an extension of others. They are then going to be a separate human being who has their own needs, feelings and life to lead, but they won’t act like one.
In general, ... Views:11
If someone were to take a step back and reflect on their life, what they may see is that they have the tendency to hide themselves around others. Due to this, they won’t freely express who they are.
The outcome of this is that they will hide a number of their needs and how they feel. They can ... Views:14
Although a man needed an attentive and caring mother, he may have had a mother who was seldom, if ever, attentive or caring. Throughout this stage of his life, she might have been more like his master than his mother.
The outcome of this is that he would have been more like her slave than her ... Views:14
Recently, someone might have had a number of strange dreams. These can be dreams where they end up being rejected and left, and even cut off from others.
There can also be moments when they are attacked and end up being harmed. Either way, thanks to what happens when they are asleep, it might ... Views:16
Even if a man had a mother who was emotionally unavailable and unable to provide him with the emotional nutrients that he needed, it doesn’t mean that he will be aware of this. He might not remember a great deal about this stage of his life.
But, if he were to think about this stage, he could ... Views:17
What someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on how they often feel, is that they often feel lonely. This is then going to be a time when they experience pain, as they are unable to meet their need to connect to another or others.
Now, this could show that they spend a lot of ... Views:16
Although there are numerous OnlyFans models, there are only a few that are well-known. Some of the well-known ones have been on TV, radio and have been featured in newspapers and magazines.
Furthermore, the women who reach this level may have earned hundreds of thousands of pounds, if not ... Views:15
If someone were able to step back and reflect on their life, what they may find is that they have the tendency to please others. They can see that this takes place without them having to think about it.
Along with this, they can find that they don’t have a good connection with their needs and ... Views:17
If someone has recently experienced a loss, they could be in a very bad way. They can have moments when they feel very sad and can’t stop crying, and moments when they shut down and are unable to feel anything.
Along with this, they can find it hard to get out of bed in the morning and ... Views:16
What can be normal is for someone to spend a lot of time feeling empty and as though they are missing something. Along with this, they can often feel invisible and question if they even exist.
As a result, they are not going to feel whole and complete and know that other people can see them ... Views:17
If someone was greatly deprived during their formative years and is not in a good way now that they are an adult, the logical thing will be for them to do what they can to heal themselves. To do this, they can read books, take courses and work with a therapist or healer.
By taking these steps ... Views:16
For a little while now, someone may have been doing what they can to put their childhood behind them and live a life worth living. But, no matter what they have done, they might not have been able to truly put the past behind them.
Nonetheless, this is not to say that they won’t have made any ... Views:16
What someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on how they behave, is that they typically play a role. This can be something that takes place without them needing to think about it.
As a result, they can have the tendency to be easy-going and do what they can to please others. ... Views:21
Although someone might not be aware of what they believe about themselves, what they believe will still have a big impact on the experience that they have. What this illustrates is how powerful their beliefs are.
When it comes to why they wouldn’t be aware of what they believe about ... Views:27
What someone may have come to see, if they have been reflecting on how they experience life, is that they don’t have a good connection with their emotional self. In general, it might be as if they don’t have an emotional self.
If this is the case, they are typically not going to be aware of ... Views:29
If someone has just gone through a breakup, they can be in a bad way mentally and emotionally. Due to this, what can often enter their mind is the thought of ending their life.
To a big part of them, this can be seen as the only way out of the misery that they are experiencing. And, just ... Views:31
What someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on their life, is that they generally act as though they are an extension of others. Due to this, they will typically be focused on other people’s needs and do what they can to meet them.
It is then going to be normal for them to ... Views:29
I don’t think my ballroom instructor/dance partner was concerned with my longevity when he barked “You gotta smile!” at me as we practiced for an upcoming competition. I’m like “Really? Besides remembering my patterns, keeping my upper body lifted, my feet grounded, my legs long, my head up and ... Views:29
Although a man can have the need to be with a woman and experience intimacy, he might not have been able to meet this need. His life might have been this way for as long as he can remember.
Thanks to this, he might believe that what is going on ‘out there’ is the issue. Then again, he might ... Views:33
If a man were to step back and reflect on his life, he may find that he generally doesn’t feel comfortable when he is around women. So, he could he could typically feel anxious and find it hard it relax.
As a result of this, he is rarely, if ever, going to fully show up when he is around ... Views:33
Even though someone is a separate individual, who has their own needs, feelings and life to lead, it doesn’t mean that they will act like one. Instead, they can act as though they are an extension of others and are thus, are here to meet their needs.
Due to this, they can then typically meet ... Views:34
If someone has just experienced a loss, they can be in a very bad way mentally, emotionally and physically. So, they can find it hard to concentrate, be filled with sadness and it can be difficult for them to do anything.
Thus, due to what is going on for them, it is not going to be possible ... Views:32
After having been with a man who is overly focused on his mother for a little while, a woman can think about cutting her ties with him. This is because she might not have the energy or the desire to continue living in this way.
But, if she has been in this position for a number of months or ... Views:32
If a man were to step back and reflect on how he sees women, he could find that he doesn’t have a positive view of them. So, he could see them as being out of reach, cold, critical and emotionally unstable.
This can show that, over the years, he has been with a number of women who were like ... Views:31
When a man starts dating a woman, he can end up putting on an act. This can be something that just takes place, as opposed to him consciously choosing to behave this way.
So, he can come across as confident and as though nothing bothers him. As a result, he is going to hide certain parts of ... Views:34
What someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on their life, is that they find it hard to feel safe. Due to this, they can spend a lot of time feeling exposed, with it being normal for them to feel anxious and even fearful.
The outcome of this is that they are seldom going to ... Views:31
If a man is in a relationship with a woman, he could spend a lot of time trying to please her. As a result, he will be focused on her needs and will do what he can to meet them.
The outcome of this is that he won’t be connected to a number of his own needs and will neglect himself. Due to how ... Views:37
After having been in a number of relationships that were anything but functional, a woman can end up in a relationship that is very different. This can be a relationship where the man (or woman) is reliable and consistent.
Due to this, what he says he will do will generally be what he does ... Views:41
If a man were to step back and reflect on his life, what he may find is that he has the tendency to be aloof when he is around women. As a result of this, he will come across as distant and it won’t be possible for a woman to connect to him.
He could see that this has largely stopped him from ... Views:33