Want Happiness? Earn it.

We all have our own individual lives to live, and this is a beautiful gift to be received as Uranus (The Awakener) retrogrades in self-discovering Aries. The shadow of Aries can be a bit of a bully, so we all need to be reminded to be kind and mindful of others. Each of us have our own journey to travel in life, and it is important to be respectful of that. Know that they have their own path to follow and their own lessons to learn ~ just as you do. Do not step on the toes of another to satisfy yourself, without a sincere apology. Don’t throw a friend under the bus as a doormat, just because you didn’t want to get your feet wet. Apologize for disrupting and distracting someone else from their journey. Thank them for helping you to grow in life. Do something kind in return, to help them grow as well. It’s good karma. Being kind to another Be-ing, is being decent. Being decent, is good manners.

If you aren’t happy, or if you feel that you aren’t growing with those that you keep in your life, then perhaps you should rethink the relationships that you keep, or rethink your own journey. Otherwise, everything remains the same in our relationships with friends, lovers, family , siblings, partners, and so on… which only encourages secrets, hidden information, and ignorance, to create a need for manipulation, deceit, that produces disrespect and unhealthy connections.

Saturn (The Disciplinary) is forced to make life tough on us, in order to teach us hard lessons in life, so that we can become better people. With Saturn transiting through Libra (relationships & partnerships), people are being faced with tough lessons, hard decisions, and serious consequences regarding the people and relationships that are kept within our circle. It’s like that old saying, ‘you are, who you hang with’. Saturn in Libra delivers a karmic justice, to create balance.

And so here we are, sitting nice and pretty, yet challenged with all of this lovely Scorpion energy to rid what makes us ill. What will you sacrifice to have inner peace again? What would you be willing to negotiate, to develop healthier relationships?

“Each person has inside a basic decency and goodness. If he listens to it and acts on it, he is giving a great deal of what it is the world needs most. It is not complicated but it takes courage. It takes courage for a person to listen to his own good” Pablo Casals.

Tarot insight: Knight if Wands, Ten of Cups: Happiness is found in the courage to change.