There are always battles on different scales between couples. In the novel Blade-dance of the Two Lovers written by Jin Yong, a couple of lovers have fights all time on the scene, but they are still very affectionate and feel inseparable. However, the other couple who seem to respect each other turn to be a fake one. Actually, the household without conflicts hasn’t existed.

The modern war has adapted high technology, evolving from the traditional warfare to the electronic warfare, even to network warfare. The radio operations are always being monitored to judge whether there is something unusual happening in a certain area. Whether it is some military operations or not, the electronic military investigation plays an important role in preventing huge catastrophe happening. It is the same case with the battle in marriage . Some awareness before hand is actually a good way to avoid fierce conflicts.

Nowadays, there are a lot of husbands who surf on the internet and flirt with young girls. If your husband shut down the dialog box when you approach him, it is a sign that he’s concealing things from you. At the time, you can find some ways to check the dialog records up to catch a cheating spouse. As to how to check out his dialog contents, there are various kinds of doing so, and you just have to search it on the internet.

As for how to monitor his emails, you can try this method. If your husband use the charged email box, such as sina, sohu, it is much easier to get his password. Generally, the email box of charges has the function of retrieving the password with the cell phone, so all you need to do is get your husband’s cell phone and log in the email. Once you get his password, you can log in and check the email box. If the box is totally empty, it is evident that he is so careful that he has deleted every email he has sent or received. However, there is another way to deal with it. There is a function of forwarding emails, if it is preset, every email he receives will be forwarded to you.

There is another way to do so, if he uses free email box or the company email box. You can install Trojan-horse programs into his computer to get the pass word. Another thing is all kinds of spy software that can be employed. If you are always with him and share one computer, it is very easy to achieve it.

Remember that those ways just mentioned can be only applied when there is really something suspected happening. Therefore, don’t be over suspicious and nervous all the time. Once your secrete operations are detected, the conflicts will upgrade to more fierce ones.

Author's Bio: 

Claire Pu is an English teacher and also studies about the education of primary school and high school. She is interested in parental control , marital relations, and other family issues. For more information:
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