The ear is one of the erogenous centres of a woman’s body. Since ears are very sensitive, touching, kissing, sucking and even gently biting her earlobes, can send her into a sexual tizzy.
Turn up the temperature by touching her ear with your fingers and tongue, followed by small, slow breaths into her ear. With your fingers, touch her lightly, around the ear, lightly on the ear lobe, and so on. Run the tip of your tongue along the outer edge of her ear, then around, then inside. Try flicking your tongue behind her earlobe in that crevice between the back of the lobe and her skin. Whisper sweet nothings. Listen carefully to determine what elicits the most excitement for her.
If you are adventurous, nibble around the outside of the rest of her ear as well. A warning: Don’t put your tongue into her ear canal, unless you know for sure that this turns her on! Generally a tongue bath, especially the ear canal, grosses out most girls.
Dr. Martha Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. She provides sexuality and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples, conducts sexual education workshops and speaks at public events. For more, visit www.eroscoaching.com or email drmarthalee@eroscoaching.com .