The Universe delivers what you ask for. And you ask for these things via your thoughts. So, suffice it to say, if you are thinking negatively, the Universe is going to deliver negative things. Don't you think it's about time to start changing your thinking patterns right now?

You might say that's easier said than done. Well, I am here to help you gain a better perspective. It's easier to do thank you think.

We are trained from a young age to think things are hard and that to get anything and anywhere in life, you have to work hard at it. While in a sense that can be true, but it's not entirely true. Things only have to be hard if you make them hard. If you think that it takes hard work, then it WILL take hard work. Have you ever noticed people who things just come easily to? Guess what? They don't have the thought that things need to be hard in order to achieve results. They think thoughts that things are easy to do.

It's interesting how some people can pick up skills very easily, and others can't seem to put two and two together in the same skill. Take me for example. I am a natural computer user. I have no fear of the computer. Computers come very easily to me. I am pretty much self-taught on computers. From formatting Word and Excel documents, to playing online computer games, to hand-coding HTML, it all comes very easy and natural to me. And I'm not even entirely sure why. It just does. And I embrace that. To me, my thoughts are computers are easy, they are natural, and they are nothing to be afraid of. Others who can't seem to pick up computer skills to save their lives have thoughts of computers are hard, difficult, and unfriendly. So, naturally, the Universe is going to deliver to them, a hard time grasping those computer skills.

Now let's talk next about turning negative thinking or statements into positive thinking or statements. Many people think that they are thinking positively, but they aren't. And let me share with you why they are not really thinking positively. They make one big mistake. They follow up their thought or statement with a caveat, or a negative twist. Something like, "I feel great... I am in no pain". Well, guess what, there's that negative - there's that "pain" that they thought they were getting rid of.

So, let's do a little footwork to try to learn how to turn negative statements into positive statements. We need to totally get rid of the negative and keep it completely positive. Let's start with some examples.

Say someone has a blood clot, or they have heart problems (blocked or clogged arteries). Instead of saying "I want to be free from any blockages or clogging", let's try something like "My blood flows through my arteries and veins freely, easily, and effortlessly". See how that was completely positive, and actually said what the person wanted, and not what they don't want? That's what you have to do. Get away from thinking about what you don't want because the more you focus on what you don't want, the more you will get what you don't want. Whether you want it or not, it's what you are focused on that you will get. Let's try another example. Say someone wants more money. Instead of saying "I want more money so that I can get out of debt " (see the negative on the end of that statement - debt ?). Try something like "I have more than enough cash to provide me the services and goods that I want". There, that's completely positive and focuses entirely on what the person wants, instead of what they don't want. Let's try one more, just so that you have the idea down pat. Instead of "I feel great today... I'm not having any pain in my back" try "I feel great today... I can move my back freely and easily and have complete flexibility". Bingo! Completely positive and focused on what the person wants.

I hope you've gotten the idea here. Take one thought, right now, that you have been thinking and take all negativity away from it and turn it totally positive. Focus on that positive statement. Give yourself a chance to succeed.

Do not fear success, fear failure. You can only fail if you let yourself. You are the creator of your life, so live well, my friends.

Author's Bio: 

Kelli Jacobson is a Networking Mompreneur. She is a Mom to a 1 1/2 year old son and has been involved in Internet Marketing now for over two years. Her specialties are blogging, social media, and free to low-cost marketing methods. If you would like to learn more about Kelli, please visit her blog at http://KelliJacobson.com . See you on the inside!